tigressA Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 A guy who's good with kids is such a huge turn-on for me. When they'll get down to their level, play around, ask them questions, really engage them. I also have a soft spot for seeing guys like that with little girls, since I'm such a daddy's girl myself. Even though I'm not sure I want kids, seeing that just makes me melt. I was on video chat earlier with the guy I've been seeing; he was babysitting his landlord's 4-year-old girl. I could see/hear the two of them together and it was beyond adorable. I honestly could not help thinking "I wouldn't mind having his babies!" I don't feel it's a necessary trait for a guy I'm in a relationship with to have, at least not now since I'm on the fence and I'm only 23; I have plenty of time. But what about others? Does it turn you on when you see a guy who's good with kids, whether they're his or someone else's?
Enchanted Girl Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 It's not an essential to me. My boyfriend hates kids for instance, but I can relate to your attraction to it. It makes you think of having a family with them and how good of father they would be.
rocket182 Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 I absolutely love it. It's axactly like EG said though, it's because it makes you think of having a family with him and seeing how good of a father he would be. What is it you're on the fence about? Having kids? I think if you love seeing your guy with kids that much that deep down you really do want them. It doesn't matter how old you are, when you know you know. I went through a phase where I didn't want kids and had decided if I ever was to have a kid I'd adopt and not actually give birth to it. One day though something just changed and I actually think quite a bit now about having kids. My boyfriend likes kids but he's never really been around them so he doesn't know what to do. I, on the other hand, have been around kids my whole life and babysat dozens of kids and babies and am very good with them. He's super cute when he plays with my nephew and he'll just stand there and watch me take care of him like it's the most amazing thing in the world and I love it :]
Gero Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 I wouldn't say that I necessarily like kids myself and they actually scare me a bit at times. However, little kids really like me for some reason. I'll talk to them and play around and stuff, but it's never gotten me a chick.
Green Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 I like kids but I would never agree to watch my landlords kids... lame
Ruby Slippers Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 I have found that men who express more fondness for kids and show more warmth toward them are better boyfriends. It makes sense -- they are more interested in humans of all kinds, more compassionate, warmer. My worst boyfriend treated them basically as if they were invisible. The best one was friendly and playful with them. I think it's a pretty big clue to the kind of person you're dealing with.
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