jessy1 Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 Im getting frustrated!! Im going through such a strange phase im my life at the moment. I was a terribly hideous child/teenager. I was bullied constantly and not only would guys not even look at me they would laugh in my face at my attemps just to talk to them. I kid you not I used to have people stop me in the streets to tell me how hideous I was. One time a guy stopped me and told me to commit suicide! Anyway I grew up and had very successful surgery and also got rid of things like bracers and bad skin etc. People actually went as far as calling me hot! 'this next bit will make no sense but im guna try' Anyway it was always the popular, hot boys that bullied me and refused to talk to me and now I do not want a bar of someone like that. The more quite guys who maybe weren't so good looking and popular were much nicer and this is the kind of guy I would love to be with. However now that things have changed for me I keep attracting the types of males that bullied me in the first place or wouldnt even give me a chance. I can't seem to attract the kind of guy I want as now they wont seem to give me a chance. At the moment there are two guys who I would consider absolutly out my league who seem to be chasing me but I dont really want either of them. There is another more quite, shy and a bit less popular boy who I absolutly adore but I just can't get his attention!!! Why is it that the ones I want never want me and the ones I dont really want seem to want me? Im confused Any why is it now that im a bit less ugly that the guys I once used to talk to don't seem interested in someone like me. My personality has not changed in anyway. In fact im still scared from my teenage years so im very quite and self concious still
Woggle Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 The guys you want probably think they have no chance with you. They are thinking that you want the other guys.
gamma1 Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 You are quiet and self conscious. This scares away the good guys, but the bad guys don't care. Go to the guy you like and show very clear interest. Keep in mind that guys and not as good mind readers as women. Make sure phone numbers are exchanged and make sure you answer when he calls (or at least call back quickly) and call him if needed. If you make it easy for him in the beginning, you will be rewarded in the long term. If he resists your attempt, he truly is not interested in you and you will have to look for someone else similar.
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