freckles3131 Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 My ex sent me this email when I asked him if he was dating this girl I heard about...this is his response "yes we do hang out, but not in the same way that I did with you. It is very casual and we just have fun together. Yes she swears like a trucker, texts like a 16 year old, can be obnoxious at times, but she treats me well and has a big heart. Most people don't see it because their initial impression is not good (which I can understand why), and she has made a reputation for herself (which she completely admits to). She helps her friends and goes way out of her way to help those around her (that's what I see). Maybe the rose colored glasses will wear off, but then it's my problem to deal with. When I first met her I was LESS than impressed with her (as that was my first impression), but after sitting back and watching her interact with her friends, I saw past the intitial shock (which I'm sure most people can't) and saw a cool person. Right now I am just having fun and am not emotionally invested at this time." Is he downplaying the situation or do you think there's more too it. I mean this girl is 110% not attactive physically. He likes tiny, pretty, intellegent, classy girls and this girl is very, very large, loud, obnoxious, etc..etc...but "she is good to me" Can a guy overlook so much in a girl just to have "fun" I've been told they spend alot of time togehter and even have had sex. It just shocks me... Is he rebounding and just liking the ego boost?
McGrupp Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 oh i talked to him the other day, he said they might be in love. time to move on!
GrayClouds Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 my ex said the new friend was not very intelligent, but that did not keep her form hitting it. Time to focus on yourself.
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