ithurtslike Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 (edited) Hi guys, just looking for some opinions please.... On Friday last i was dumped my girlfriend, it came as quite a shock as we had just started a long distance relationship. We had been dating for the past 4 months before she moved home to her home country. We said we would see how things went. We had been in contact everyday in some way and she was always saying nice things, however she does seem to get overwhelmed a lot and easily. She has had many things to adjust to be it moving home to own culture, reconnecting with family & friends, getting new place, job & collage. In the past week she stated that her ex got in contact and not to worry i was her rock and did not love him, she did however think she was confused and found no energy for anything. I was meant to visit her next week and out of the blue she has come to this decision that shes not able to cope with resuming her life in her home and making enough time for me. Before she left we were spending everyday together and even the nice things she said make it very confusing for me. one minute we are planning to spend time together the next she is worried i would dislike her because she is depressed and not energetic enough about us. I think it has more to do with her being overwhelmed than anything and dont know what to do. I have never felt so much pain like this, i knew it would be difficult but when she ended it i was swallowed up by a black depression, i have no appetite, sick feeling in my stomach and feel like crying. Is this even normal? I have never felt like this before with girls i had been with previously for much longer! please post your comments to help me cope with this heartbreak Edited July 10, 2010 by ithurtslike
Iconoclast Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Yes. It is 100% normal. Depression, lack of appetite, loss of interest in your favorite things...etc. TRUST ME. You'll be fine. Give it at least a few weeks. The length of the pain is usually somewhat connected to the length of the romance and your age. Exercise helps, do something you haven't tried before, that seems to help as well. Again. Chill. It'll pass.
Author ithurtslike Posted July 10, 2010 Author Posted July 10, 2010 Hey Iconoclast Thanks for the encouragement, I have never experienced pain like this. She was everything i wanted and more. I find it really difficult as it was so sudden and I have no choice but to take it on the chin because she is not ready.
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