IveGotProblems Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Ok I think I need to give a little back story. So I've been seeing this girl for about a month and a half now. Everything seemed to be going great, then I left for a two week trip for my sisters wedding. When I got back I tried settin up a date, it took a few days to get a time we could agree on. Her friend came into town and her job is pretty demanding sometimes, so I understand the struggle. We ended up settling on Sunday. When I dropped her off I reminded her of the baseball game we were going to go to on Wednesday, and she suggested that we maybe could go out sometime before, but unfortunatly I had to work back to back doubles and couldn't. On Wednesday she seemed kind of quiet, and didn't look too interested in the game. We decided to catch a movie Friday, but when Friday came she texted me saying she was beat and didn't want to do anything. She's had to do a lot at work lately so it doesn't suprise me. Next weekend is my sisters wedding reception in a town about an hour away. I was wondering if I should ask her to go with me, I kinda assumed she would before, but I'm not so sure anymore.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Are you sure you and her are ready to date, especially each other? It seems work and other plans always get in the way.
Author IveGotProblems Posted July 10, 2010 Author Posted July 10, 2010 Well I think it's hard right now because it's summer. We're both in college, so I'm working a lot to save up for tuition. Once classes start I cut down almost completely.
Mike B. Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I don't think texting to break off a date especially on the day of the date is ever a good sign. Sorry. I would ask to go to the wedding reception. If she agrees, there should still be some high enough interest there but if she cancel on you for that or turn you down for the invitation, I would start looking for another date.
airjordan Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 If she was interested she will go out with you. If I was interested in a girl, no matter how tired I am, I would go out with them. Ask her to go, and if she declines, move on man.
ALittleWorried Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 So I've been seeing this girl for about a month and a half now. Next weekend is my sisters wedding reception in a town about an hour away. I was wondering if I should ask her to go with me, I kinda assumed she would before, but I'm not so sure anymore. You've seen her for a little over a month and you want to invite her to your sisters wedding? If this was going to be just an ordinary date, I'd more than likely agree with the last two posters. However, this is a wedding we're talking about. A place that's going to seat X amount of guests, most of which are going to be your immediate family. I'm just thinking of my current situation and how much I adore the girl I'm seeing. If she asked me to attend a family wedding within the first 2 months of seeing her, I'd probably decline. To me, that's a BIG step in a relationship. Your family will then look at her as a serious girlfriend; something she would probably be intimidated by. They'll be asking questions, etc etc. If you invite her to this wedding and she declines, sorry, but I can't blame her.
Author IveGotProblems Posted July 14, 2010 Author Posted July 14, 2010 I don't know if this changes anything, but it isn't the wedding, that already happened in another state, it's an outdoor reception, more like a graduation party format. I decided not to ask her tho because I have to get there early to help set up and it's an hour and a half away. But also with the canceled date, she said she was tired and didn't really feel like doing anything, but we could if I really wanted to, and I said we didn't have to. Then I asked her again about tomorrow but she's out of town, and she suggested tonight but I'm workin, but it did take like 12 hours for her to respond. I'm just kind of confused here.
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