Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 Whatever floats their boat I guess. They do a good job of keeping the women with self esteem issues away and leave the good ones out for the guys who want a real relationship. I guess this is true to some degree I still cant help but feel sorry for the women in this situation a little. I mean I know if I found out my sexual life was being broadcast in such detail ide be horrified. And to boot this is not some random bar fly its a girl hes seen a few times and is considering dating long term! Yea that would def make future get togethers awkard for me anyways ide feel horrible I knew he disrespected her like that behind her back I honestly believe it's all made up and shared among a circle of"buddies" for some strange psychosexual reason that may very well be suppressed homosexual tendencies. Well my partner is bi by nature and he finds it tackey and needless so I dont think theres anything gay or half gay about it lol I think like others have said its a grab for attention more then anything its like holding up a sign that says "I have issues look at me" A lot of my male friends that boast about their sexual encounters are usually lying. Most of them have flat out come out to admit they've either flat out lied or exaggerated the details. I think men tend to think other people are impressed by their sexual conquests. I personally never have been. You know how promiscuous women are presumed to either be daddy's girls or girls that were ignored by their fathers? I always assume promiscuous or boastful men are the same - it smacks of looking for attention, respect or recognition. Not only do you need the validation of numerous sexual partners, which I do not believe all of us need, but you need others to know about and have something to say about it i.e. congratulate you, be shocked by you. These people are generally insecure, immature or just generally attention seeking. I know of girls that boast as well and I think it all comes down to the same three things. They are STARVED of attention or self-worth. They are not content. Yes sex is sex but to boast about is another thing. Whenever i've had sex i've never felt the need to boast about it. Sex is nothing to boast about it. Its one of the easiest things in the world to get. Hardly an achievement. Agreed 100% ive actualy gone from being pissed off to feeling sorry for this guy since last night. How ever I will be dammed if I will let him be disrespectfull to me or anyone else. Nor will I allow his issues to be pushed in me and bfs relationship his fell apart thats sad but dont try and sabotage ours buddy! For women perhaps . . . it can be a very different story for non-player guys. Running a 10K can certainly seem like an easier achievement. Seriously? is it this hard to get a hook up im not a super model by far ill admit it and even I can say ive had my fun in the past. Now getting a relationship to work and last thats a true accomplishment to me anyways not how you got a piece of free tail JMO... Guys do it to impress other guys, and it generally works, sad as that is. You seriously believe that? OK maybe it works for the high school crowed but once your over 21 its time to grow up most grown men who were raised with a ounce of respect and self worth don't kiss and tell nor find it a impressive trait in their buddy's again thats JMO On one final note the guy text bfs cell today trying to say to him that its basically OK because my bf has known him longer then me how truly arrogant he is. Then after that added a shallow but im sorry anyways I guess just to cover his @ss with the bf a bit. I don't hate this guy I think he has problems more then anything Thanks to all who responded Ps.... On a side note I just remembered apparently this guy comes from a quite wealthy family of old money im not saying thats THE reason but I cant help but wonder if maybe thats were a little of the arrogance is coming from? he still lives at home in daddy's mansion.
Woggle Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Don't you realize how looney this makes you sound? Coming from a supposedly happily married individual. This doesn't help your case at all. Unless a man can find a woman like mine who not play around? It sure beats being whipped by a woman who will betray and leave you down the road.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Unless a man can find a woman like mine who not play around? It sure beats being whipped by a woman who will betray and leave you down the road. The same can be said the other way around. You always post like its just the women who do the betraying. Guys do it as well.
Woggle Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Don't feel sorry for this woman. She chooses to date jerks who use her so she is not a victim. Take your average nice guy who respects women and take his friend and put them in a night club. Let's see who gets more numbers.
Woggle Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 The same can be said the other way around. You always post like its just the women who do the betraying. Guys do it as well. These days women are doing 75% of the betraying.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 These days women are doing 75% of the betraying. A women initiating divorce because of one of these reasons: infidelity, verbal abuse, physical abuse is not betrayal. Yes some women initiate because to coin your repetive posts "to find themselves" but that is in the minority. You disagree? Find a study that says otherwise.
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 Don't feel sorry for this woman. She chooses to date jerks who use her so she is not a victim. Take your average nice guy who respects women and take his friend and put them in a night club. Let's see who gets more numbers. More important who gets the RIGHT numbers from the right kind of girls to me its all about quantity then quality to men these days These days women are doing 75% of the betraying. Bull s*it... your just bitter thats all I hope you can work thu your issues woogle cause I cant help but imagen that kind of toxic attitude will eventually spill over into your marriage..
Woggle Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 The men you want men to be will get zero numbers while the man whores will be swimming in them. I know men like this and while women might dislike them in theory they sure swoon over them.
Woggle Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I don't see how any man look at this board and wonder why some men would rather play around than commit to a woman.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 The men you want men to be will get zero numbers while the man whores will be swimming in them. I know men like this and while women might dislike them in theory they sure swoon over them. again those women, especially being at a club are probably brainless twats. We know people too Woggle.
Woggle Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 again those women, especially being at a club are probably brainless twats. We know people too Woggle. At least man whores are getting somebody. What women are the so called respectable men getting?
Pyro Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 At least man whores are getting somebody. What women are the so called respectable men getting? I'd rather beat off myself than deal with the drama and BS of those type of women. So now something is better than nothing to you? Um I have a great girl, as do many others, but you pick out what you want to believe. I hope you are still doing therapy.
Woggle Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I'd rather beat off myself than deal with the drama and BS of those type of women. So now something is better than nothing to you? Um I have a great girl, as do many others, but you pick out what you want to believe. I hope you are still doing therapy. I agree with you about rather being alone but if a man wants a love life he pretty much has to be a manwhore.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I agree with you about rather being alone but if a man wants a love life he pretty much has to be a manwhore. um no he doesn't. Make some more friends or meet new people. There lots and lots of great couples out there. Jersey is a small place.
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 The men you want men to be will get zero numbers while the man whores will be swimming in them. I know men like this and while women might dislike them in theory they sure swoon over them. Ive never swooned over a man whore in my life sex is just that sex it dose not equal love witch is what I think most people truly yearn for you will never get love from a person who dose not love themselves 1st I don't see how any man look at this board and wonder why some men would rather play around than commit to a woman. because their immature and can't commit I guess maybe because sociality has become so use to drama that we play it out every chance we can get especially in dating its not a "game" after all is it? At the end of the day if men or women for that matter want to be used for a easy score then I guess it speaks something about them and were they are at physiologically
Chicago_Guy Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 um no he doesn't. Make some more friends or meet new people. There lots and lots of great couples out there. Jersey is a small place. Woggle has a good point. Attractive women in their 20s at least usually seem to prefer either older men or the promiscous player-types. There are exceptions, but I don't know how you can deny this. There are lots of good guys who aren't players and women think they are boring or "too nice." There are lots of guys in their 20s who go through long stretches of no dating/sex, but how many women experience the same unless it is self-imposed?
Pyro Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Woggle has a good point. Attractive women in their 20s at least usually seem to prefer either older men or the promiscous player-types. There are exceptions, but I don't know how you can deny this. There are lots of good guys who aren't players and women think they are boring or "too nice." There are lots of guys in their 20s who go through long stretches of no dating/sex, but how many women experience the same unless it is self-imposed? and my point is that not everyone goes through that. He thinks that being a manwhore is pretty much the only way to have a lovelife, which is far from the truth. That was the only thing that I denied.
Gero Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 There are lots of good guys who aren't players and women think they are boring or "too nice." There are lots of guys in their 20s who go through long stretches of no dating/sex, but how many women experience the same unless it is self-imposed? I don't know what the exact total is, but I'm one of those guys.
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 Woggle has a good point. Attractive women in their 20s at least usually seem to prefer either older men or the promiscous player-types. There are exceptions, but I don't know how you can deny this. There are lots of good guys who aren't players and women think they are boring or "too nice." There are lots of guys in their 20s who go through long stretches of no dating/sex, but how many women experience the same unless it is self-imposed? Um Ive known a few women who were "attractive" smart educated even but still had a hard time finding a decent man. I think more times then not men have become so caut up in what society thinks that they pass up these kind of women instead waist their time pineing for the "hot" ones! IE the mentality if I can't get myself a "Hot" looking gf ide rather not have anything poor me boo hoo snif snif im not saying this is the reason 100% of the time. But maybe more then guys care to admit? They want that "hot" thing in the club (often times no matter watter what the guy them selves may look like mind you) You know the kind the one who knows she hot and can get what ever she wants why cause guys will line up for it thats why! Mean time the decent average women sit home wondering why cant I get a decent man? thats just MHO on the subject
Gero Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Um Ive known a few women who were "attractive" smart educated even but still had a hard time finding a decent man. I think more times then not men have become so caut up in what society thinks that they pass up these kind of women instead waist their time pineing for the "hot" ones! I've dated some of those types of women you talk about. They say that I'm cute and a great catch and everything but they don't want to date me for some reason. It's hilarious.
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 I've dated some of those types of women you talk about. They say that I'm cute and a great catch and everything but they don't want to date me for some reason. It's hilarious. Well then thats their issues shining thu not yours don't let it get you down..
Gero Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Well then thats their issues shining thu not yours don't let it get you down.. Thanks. I have let it get to me in the past, but I am getting better at dealing with stuff now. It just sucks because I would like to snap my fingers and find a great girl that likes me as much as I like her but it's obviously not that easy.
Ruby Slippers Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 There lots and lots of great couples out there. Jersey is a small place. And you and your lady sure seem to be one of those great couples. I love the new picture, you guys!! It makes me feel warm and fuzzy and gives me hope. Fine-looking folks, and a smilie, fine-looking couple.
GoodOnPaper Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Seriously? is it this hard to get a hook up im not a super model by far ill admit it and even I can say ive had my fun in the past. Now getting a relationship to work and last thats a true accomplishment to me anyways not how you got a piece of free tail JMO... The relationship part is a piece of cake -- it's the attraction part that I've always been terrible at. I'm in my 40's and have a lifetime total of zero casual sex. I'd like for that to be a good thing, but I can't help but feel that I'm at the bottom of the masculinity barrel and it puts a lot of pressure on a relationship for it to try and make up for what I think I missed out on. That said, I don't get the whole graphic bragging bit either.
lino Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 From what I've seen, man whores are actually the guys most desired for a relationship by females.
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