Tex59 Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I've been married for almost three years. My wife is three years my junior and her older sister is my age. There has been some weird chemistry and sometimes inappropriate flirting with my sister-in-law since my wife and I were dating but I always believed that it would never cross the line. I may be in really deep ****. Some background: My SIL is something of a free spirit, 35, never married, has tried her hand at a lot of livelihoods, seems to have some psych issues with men and only seems to date guys that are not going to be serious partners for her. She's active in a 12 step program and has channeled her frustrations and energies into exercise - neck deep in cross-fit and similar programs. Complicated broad. Very fit, very attractive, very screwed up. She moved into a new apartment in late June, isn't very handy and is between boyfriends at the moment. She called my wife on July 3rd (preggo, btw) and asked if we could come over to help her set up a bedframe and some Ikea junk. No big deal, right? My wife said that she was tired but volunteered me to help. I was actually happy to get out for a little while and was curious about the new apartment. I kissed my wife goodbye and left completely innocently. When I arrived at the new apartment I was impressed that this was a pretty cool pad. It was a very old quad building built around 1920 with a lot of quirks and personality; the kind of place I would love to buy and tinker with. Anyway, we started assembling the Ikea junk and it was getting a little weird. I started getting aroused watching her work and she kept making skin-to-skin contact. She would touch my hand for a little too long when I passed her a tool, she would make sure our legs and shoulders touched when looking at directions, drink from my glass of water and I caught her looking at "me" when I was kneeling and my arousal was apparent through my shorts. So, here we are, sweating and working and she has my heart all a-flitter with her sweaty t-shirt, showing a lot of nice leg and flirting with my like we're back in 7th grade. This is totally going in a bad direction and I know it, but this is still deeply satisfying on a number of levels. At that point I basically committed to a mistake and decided that I wasn't going to do anything unless she made the first move... I knew that if she did I was going to be all over her. Fast-forward about an hour to the point at which we are moving the mattress onto the now completed bedframe. I'm holding a corner of the mattress up while she arranges the dust ruffle and she lets a really long period of time go by with her breast resting on the back of my hand. This really gets the pulse racing and the butterflies churning. Out of no-where she says "F___ it", grabs my hand and jams it over her breast proper and sticks her tongue in my mouth. I was dumbfounded but I went for it, grabbed a handful of buttock and pressed her hips into my pelvis as hard as I could. She stopped kissing me for a moment, looked me in the eyes and said "Are we really doing this?" I took it as a rhetorical question and flopped down on top of her on the mattress. I skinned her shorts off as fast as I could, she unbuckled my belt and yanked it off, deftly popped the button and dropped the zipper of my shorts and then forced them down around my ankles with her bare foot. I will never forget the sight that followed: I was so turned on that a little ribbon of "pre-something" dribbled off of me when she lowered my boxers - she grabbed it between thumb and forefinger and put it in her mouth. Talk about sensory overload... To make a long story short, things were over and done in a minimal amount of time and I laid down on the bed next to her, feeling a lot of post-orgasm horror and shame. "Don't worry, I'll never say a word about this to anyone." she said. "Can you go again?" I told her I didn't think so and she said "that's too bad." Let's just say that she did some things to me in order to achieve a condition to reprise the performance. Round two: long and sweaty - then double post-orgasmic horror and shame. I dressed and went home as fast as I could. I haven't seen her since and I have no idea what I'm going to do. I'm hosed. Anyone have any advice?
awkward Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 (edited) I really can't think of any advice right now. I'm just stunned really. Her freaking sister? Do you love your wife? Wow this is going to kill her. Edited July 10, 2010 by awkward
Author Tex59 Posted July 10, 2010 Author Posted July 10, 2010 I really can't think of any advice right now. I'm just stunned really. Her freaking sister? Do you love your wife? Wow this is going to kill her. I love my wife and I love my family. I fully understand how ridiculous, unsatisfying and illogical this sounds, but there was no intimacy in the encounter. It was basically the emotional equivalent of masturbation. I Had a temporary suspension of sanity and, as far as I can tell, I'm completely screwed.
awkward Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Yeah it's a pretty screwed up situation. Why do you think you didn't have any boundaries in place? How is your wife's relationship with her sister? Did your sister-in-law appear to suffer from buyer's remorse? Have you considered talking to a counselor about this? Don't worry there will be others that will be able to offer you some advice. I really don't want to say the wrong thing here.
pureinheart Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Wow, this is a difficult sitch here...with a non relative chances of the one time deal being exposed is about nill and none, but the sis...wow. What would your W do if she found out? You say sis is not right in the head, is she vindictive also? My suggestion would be to never let it happen again. This type of thing is running rampant in my family and is causing great trauma. One member tried to commit suicide a couple of weeks ago due to this. There is a lot of temptation out there and many people who put themselves out there continuously, meaning being seductive and doing it on purpose...I don't get it. You sound remorseful, yet sound like it could happen again...please be strong and resist the temptation, as it is everywhere...it's not worth it. Sin has it's pleasurable season, although when that season is done, then come the consequences, and man that is too high of a price to pay. I want to say everything so that you will not go there again with anyone because you sound as if you are at a crossroads...and BTW your SIL needs some serious help as it seems to be worse it being her sis and all. Hey I hope you are ok, and I'm so sorry you are in this ...although welcome to the forum, and wish it were under different circumstances...hey, ((((((hugs)))))) and my prayers are with you;)
crazycatlady Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I know how this feels. I'm in this same situation as the BW. Both he and she betrayed me. Course in my case it was also emotional too. He and I have been dealing with this openly and honestly now. It broke my heart. I've never been in such physical and emotional pain. That's how hard it hurt me, it was physical too. Its been very difficult and he's put up with a lot from me because of this. But due to this I no longer have a close relationship with my sister. When I decided to visit my home town (because we don't live in the same town, that's going to hurt your wife worse) I was going to confront my sister and attempt to talk to her about it and try to deal with those emotions too. She completely ignored those attempts, some other things happened (if anyone cares I'll start a thread and talk about it) and right now I'm putting on a happy face because I can't tell everyone my sister f'ed my husband and so she continues to get away with her bad behavior of several kinds and if I react badly to them (which I did) I'm the oversensitive one. And three times this trip my husband has gotten phone calls from me in hysterical tears basically yelling at him for f'ing her and putting me in this situation and then how much she is hurting me. She's playing a lot of passive-aggressive BS. On the plus side, how she is treating me is driving home to him what a not so nice person she truly is. I know where his loyality now. See that was the kicker....It really felt that a lot more of his loyalty was with her. Because he didn't tell me sooner what happened because she told him not to and because it wasn't just his mistake. I was very hurt by that. Hurt far more by that then by the actual act. She was getting better more honest treatment. She knew more about my relationship with him then I did. All those things tore my heart open. Tell the sister that you are telling the wife and she better come clean too if she wants a chance of saving her relationship with her. You screwed up big time. What you did will break your wife's heart at a minimum. My husband told me the other night when we were once again talking about it that he damn near killed me. He finally sees just what this did to me. What trying to protect her did to me. And he knows that all I wanted to do was to be able to talk to her about how it made me feel and to see how we could get past it and go back to being the close to best friends we were and this is how she treats me and my attempt. She knew I wanted to do it because he warned her. Anyway....make the sil understand she too needs to come clean. You both are at fault. You might have ruined your marriage and destroyed their relationship. Admit YOU did it. Don't blame the sister. You could have left you could have said "this isn't right" or at any time "please stop" but you wanted it too. Admit it. Own it. Its YOUR screw up. CCL
crazycatlady Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Forgive the double post. Computer froze halfway through posting and I didn't think it worked. CCL
strawberrysprinkles Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Sure is a lot of detail, and you seem to enjoy telling it just a little too much. I'm calling troll.
Fieldsofgold Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I love my wife and I love my family. I fully understand how ridiculous, unsatisfying and illogical this sounds, but there was no intimacy in the encounter. It was basically the emotional equivalent of masturbation. I Had a temporary suspension of sanity and, as far as I can tell, I'm completely screwed. Well, if you're telling the truth, and if this is for real - - - I say that, because your post has all the nasty details of a trashy novel that I don't think the average poster would include in their remorse/help me post - - - so I think you're a troll. BUT, on the off-chance that you really are that callous and slimy . . . First thing - get tested for STDs. the psycho SIL could have ANYTHING, and I'd sure hate for you to give your unborn baby some disease BEFORE ITS EVEN BORN!!!!! For you to be able to do it with SIL the second time, doesn't sound like you had too much remorse. And your poor wife - pregnant with your first child. That'll give her some lifetime memories. You could have just walked away when the heat started turning up, you know. Now, of course, I'm sure the psycho SIL will be needing plenty of other "things" fixed around her apartment. You sound like a rather oppprtunistic b@$t@rd, with all the morals of a mad dog in heat. I think you should do your wife and child a favor and just go ahead and leave her, because, really, unless you undergo a serious internal change, you sound like just another serial cheater in the making. Any time a sweaty body starts rubbing you, you'll go for it. And what kind of role model will you be for your child. No, do them all a favor and leave. So you destroyed your life, your wife and your marriage for a piece of psycho $$$$$, and your first child isn't even born yet. WOW.
Fieldsofgold Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Sure is a lot of detail, and you seem to enjoy telling it just a little too much. I'm calling troll. Hey, strawberry! I totally agree. (I was half-way through typing my response and got a phone call, so I didn't see yours before I posted.) Tex, you wanted advice - it won't sell!
Silly_Girl Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Sure is a lot of detail, and you seem to enjoy telling it just a little too much. I'm calling troll. That's exactly why I didn't post!
Silly_Girl Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Yes, I got the impression that the story was a practice run in literotica. I give it a B+ Are you feeling generous today?
jthorne Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I give it a B-. Needs to have a little more angst. And it's obviously written by a woman. A man would have described his bulging manhood a little better.
bentnotbroken Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I've been married for almost three years. My wife is three years my junior and her older sister is my age. There has been some weird chemistry and sometimes inappropriate flirting with my sister-in-law since my wife and I were dating but I always believed that it would never cross the line. I may be in really deep ****. Some background: My SIL is something of a free spirit, 35, never married, has tried her hand at a lot of livelihoods, seems to have some psych issues with men and only seems to date guys that are not going to be serious partners for her. She's active in a 12 step program and has channeled her frustrations and energies into exercise - neck deep in cross-fit and similar programs. Complicated broad. Very fit, very attractive, very screwed up. She moved into a new apartment in late June, isn't very handy and is between boyfriends at the moment. She called my wife on July 3rd (preggo, btw) and asked if we could come over to help her set up a bedframe and some Ikea junk. No big deal, right? My wife said that she was tired but volunteered me to help. I was actually happy to get out for a little while and was curious about the new apartment. I kissed my wife goodbye and left completely innocently. When I arrived at the new apartment I was impressed that this was a pretty cool pad. It was a very old quad building built around 1920 with a lot of quirks and personality; the kind of place I would love to buy and tinker with. Anyway, we started assembling the Ikea junk and it was getting a little weird. I started getting aroused watching her work and she kept making skin-to-skin contact. She would touch my hand for a little too long when I passed her a tool, she would make sure our legs and shoulders touched when looking at directions, drink from my glass of water and I caught her looking at "me" when I was kneeling and my arousal was apparent through my shorts. So, here we are, sweating and working and she has my heart all a-flitter with her sweaty t-shirt, showing a lot of nice leg and flirting with my like we're back in 7th grade. This is totally going in a bad direction and I know it, but this is still deeply satisfying on a number of levels. At that point I basically committed to a mistake and decided that I wasn't going to do anything unless she made the first move... I knew that if she did I was going to be all over her. Fast-forward about an hour to the point at which we are moving the mattress onto the now completed bedframe. I'm holding a corner of the mattress up while she arranges the dust ruffle and she lets a really long period of time go by with her breast resting on the back of my hand. This really gets the pulse racing and the butterflies churning. Out of no-where she says "F___ it", grabs my hand and jams it over her breast proper and sticks her tongue in my mouth. I was dumbfounded but I went for it, grabbed a handful of buttock and pressed her hips into my pelvis as hard as I could. She stopped kissing me for a moment, looked me in the eyes and said "Are we really doing this?" I took it as a rhetorical question and flopped down on top of her on the mattress. I skinned her shorts off as fast as I could, she unbuckled my belt and yanked it off, deftly popped the button and dropped the zipper of my shorts and then forced them down around my ankles with her bare foot. I will never forget the sight that followed: I was so turned on that a little ribbon of "pre-something" dribbled off of me when she lowered my boxers - she grabbed it between thumb and forefinger and put it in her mouth. Talk about sensory overload... To make a long story short, things were over and done in a minimal amount of time and I laid down on the bed next to her, feeling a lot of post-orgasm horror and shame. "Don't worry, I'll never say a word about this to anyone." she said. "Can you go again?" I told her I didn't think so and she said "that's too bad." Let's just say that she did some things to me in order to achieve a condition to reprise the performance. Round two: long and sweaty - then double post-orgasmic horror and shame. I dressed and went home as fast as I could. I haven't seen her since and I have no idea what I'm going to do. I'm hosed. Anyone have any advice? All the bolded parts speak of what you have so little of. So little of. So little I can't even capatilize the letters in little .
vanilla chai Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Sure is a lot of detail, and you seem to enjoy telling it just a little too much. I'm calling troll. It did read like a porn novel
bentnotbroken Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 All the bolded parts speak of what you have so little of. So little I can't even capatilize the letters in little . Okay back to where I was before my computer booted me off.... As I was saying the bolded parts speak to what you have so little of. 1) Boundaries 2)Maturity 3)Common sense(dumbfounded) 4)Self control 5)Respect 6)Integrity 7)Dignity 8)Honor 9)Endurance 10)Writing skills. AAACCCHHHUUU...troll dust usually makes me sneeze.
Fieldsofgold Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I give it a B-. Needs to have a little more angst. And it's obviously written by a woman. A man would have described his bulging manhood a little better. LOL - so true!
BB07 Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I give it a B-. Needs to have a little more angst. And it's obviously written by a woman. A man would have described his bulging manhood a little better. Loved your take on it Jthorne........I needed the laugh.
jthorne Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 9)Endurance HAHA, good one, Bent! Gotta give 'em a little credit- the refractory rate was decent. Guess they don't realize that women enjoy quality over quantity.
Ella whispers Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I think the troll is the crazy SIL if she even exists.
sweetjasmine Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Reading this over it really screams troll. All the caricatures are present, and in great detail! The innocent, helpless, unsuspecting, pregnant wife. The idiot husband, inadvertently turned into a manwhore by the attractive, yet flaky, drug addicted, psycho OW. My favorite parts: I guffawed. Hey, go easy on him/her, we haven't gotten to the "Oh f*** she's PREGNANT! And she wants to keep the baby!" update yet.
Pink_orchid Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Yes a story straight of the literotica.com website of horny stories me thinks, or perhaps just about to be posted up there lol.
Author Tex59 Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 Sure is a lot of detail, and you seem to enjoy telling it just a little too much. I'm calling troll. Very, very real, unfortunately. I'm cooled off a bit and more than a little embarrassed to have posted in the first place. The situation is certainly a little fascinating, I needed to vent and it was easy to get carried away. This forum may be a little more legitimate than I thought at first. Anyway, my mistake for bringing it up.
BB07 Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Very, very real, unfortunately. I'm cooled off a bit and more than a little embarrassed to have posted in the first place. The situation is certainly a little fascinating, I needed to vent and it was easy to get carried away. This forum may be a little more legitimate than I thought at first. Anyway, my mistake for bringing it up. Embarrassed that you posted uh.........now that is funny! You've got bigger things to worry about......you did your SIL. My gosh man.......you are nuts if you aren't a troll.
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