justaquestion Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 To me it sound like a no but I want second opinions.
Author justaquestion Posted July 10, 2010 Author Posted July 10, 2010 ya i agree with that, but it feels better when somebody say yes or definately, then sure.
robdrm32 Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Unless she had a sarcastic tone to her voice, its a yes. Its just another way of saying it. Saying the actual word "yes" sounds awkward sometimes imo
Author justaquestion Posted July 10, 2010 Author Posted July 10, 2010 One last question if you ask a girl out on a date she said no but invite you to go hang out with her friends that night (first date) is she interested. I said no because that would been awkward.
a.friend Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Means she does not want to be alone with you; at least at this point. Could also mean she wants her friends to size you up. Not too mention, an easy exit clause if things go not to her liking. A safety net if you will.
Green Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Sure is often used sarcasticly. She probably meant yes, even though she gave you the unenthusiastic word sure. But even when a girl says YES to a date it doesn't mean its going to happen unless you are ready to go on the date that moment. If the date isn't until that night or the next day or some other point in the future they can always cancel or back out. Personaly even if a girl says NO or BACKS OUT of a date I still ask her out a few more times until I either <A> get bored and lose interest or <B> She makes it clear that I need to STOP. Usualy I just get bored of asking a girl out who says not. BUT I have often gotten a yes by not giving up at the first no. So you really can wear a girl down for that FIRST date... and then she just might find herself LIKING you after that first KISS. make sure you KISS the girl on the first date. Don't ask, just KISS before that first date is over.
Green Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 One last question if you ask a girl out on a date she said no but invite you to go hang out with her friends that night (first date) is she interested. I said no because that would been awkward. DUDE you should have gone. You could have pulled her to the side way from her friends and kissed her. If she invited you to hang out at a club with DANCING you could have danced the night away with her. Then pulled her away to a corner away from her friends and KISSED her. If she is still out there GO NOW!!
Serenitynow Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Could also mean she wants her friends to size you up. Not too mention, an easy exit clause if things go not to her liking. A safety net if you will. LOL funny, I posted a question on here about girls having their friends size up a guy. All the women acted like I was goofy, and said they never do that. So much dishonesty on here. And the funny thing is, they are annonymus posters, so WHY wouldnt you be honest? Some people are just stuck on backing "their side" no matter what the situation. .
You'reasian Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 To me it sound like a no but I want second opinions. Paralysis of analysis. Go on the date and seize the day...
Author justaquestion Posted July 10, 2010 Author Posted July 10, 2010 I already blew it with this girl. It a long story, but I met this girl about 8 months ago. Finally asked her out about 3 months ago, she said she couldn't make it but invite me to hang with her friends or go to same event later time. Then found out she was in a ldr. They broke up at the beginning of the summer. I was going to be in her hometown couple times this summer, so I wanted to see her. Got the it depends on work but sure. Called her no response back. Then talk to her couple days ago and had a good convo. Me teasing her and she usually tease me back but she just laughed. Then I said we need to catch up in person when you get back. All she said was alright sounds good. I'm totally confused.
yume Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 Probably doesn't want to start anything with you - note you keep contacting her, but she isn't doing much to contact YOU. I would say move on for now because she is either a) not over her ex and/or b) not looking to date or start a relationship right now.
lab_brat Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 DUDE you should have gone. You could have pulled her to the side way from her friends and kissed her. If she invited you to hang out at a club with DANCING you could have danced the night away with her. Then pulled her away to a corner away from her friends and KISSED her. If she is still out there GO NOW!! Green, whats the deal with the 'must kiss on the first date' thing? I mean absolutely no offense, I'm honestly just curious, you've mentioned it in posts as a rule a few times before - it just interests me?
carhill Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 'I'd love to take you out to xxx on Friday night' 'Sure' 'OK, pick you up at 7' 'Sure' Over done. The Mustang is rockin' tonight One last question if you ask a girl out on a date she said no but invite you to go hang out with her friends that nightThere's only room for two in my car:)
Author justaquestion Posted July 11, 2010 Author Posted July 11, 2010 Probably doesn't want to start anything with you - note you keep contacting her, but she isn't doing much to contact YOU. I would say move on for now because she is either a) not over her ex and/or b) not looking to date or start a relationship right now. this is true, but when i contacted her the other day, all i did was wished her a happy birthday, and hope she was having good summer. She then answered it as a question, started a convo with me. We talked for ten to fifteen minutes or so, till i had to go. If she wasn't interested it would be a thank you and end to the convo.
Green Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 Green, whats the deal with the 'must kiss on the first date' thing? I mean absolutely no offense, I'm honestly just curious, you've mentioned it in posts as a rule a few times before - it just interests me? I just try to keep the advice simple and let the listner fill in the blanks. I just think it's a major mistake some guys who post on this forum make. They aproach a romantic relationship with a woman as merely a friendship. It's fine to be friendly but you also have to be flirty and KISS.
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