john 07 Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 First date was dinner and bar....no kiss and no hug... Second date it was, mini golf, movies, dinner, bar and kareoke bar. The bar and kareoke bar was us and 2 of her friends. During the movies I wanted to hold her hand(Gosh I was sooo nervous just trying to hold her hands), so we just held hands. During the whole night i was looking for her body language to see if she would be giving away signs if she likes me.......I couldnt really tell. Maybe it was cuz her friends were there. I then walked her home and gave her a hug. that was it.........sad I like this girl but feel maybe I should move on. I want to ask her out on a third date but not sure if it will go anywhere. how am i going to kiss her if im so nervous to hold her hands. Is it too early to give up??? should i ask her out on another date?? Should i be worried there has been no kiss? What would an appropriate 3rd date be?? maybe the aquarium??? The date was yesterday.....when should i contact her again.......or should i wait until she contacts me??? ahhh im so bad at dating....=/
Cracker Jack Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Definitely too early to give up. I think it's okay for you to contact her, but make it clear that you want to go on an actual date--and not one with her friends mixed in. I also think you should go for the kiss next time to see how she takes it. Her holding your hand was a good sign, but you have to see if she's okay with you taking it a step further.
Author john 07 Posted July 10, 2010 Author Posted July 10, 2010 Definitely too early to give up. I think it's okay for you to contact her, but make it clear that you want to go on an actual date--and not one with her friends mixed in. I also think you should go for the kiss next time to see how she takes it. Her holding your hand was a good sign, but you have to see if she's okay with you taking it a step further. so the thing is that i met her through a friend at the bars. we already kissed...but that was when we were really drunk before we went out on a first date. I guess things get much harder when we arnt drunk...cuz we are conscious of whats going on now......
Feanor23x Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Most recent 2nd date for me ended with a single quick kiss (her and I are both quite shy individuals). 3rd date involved us making out in her car. I would definitely suggest going for a 3rd with her (and hopefully just her, ie. no friends) and trying for a kiss. If you get to the 4th or 5th and there is still no kiss, then you might be in trouble
Green Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 You do relize that as the man you pretty much have to be the one to go in for the kiss?
Author john 07 Posted July 10, 2010 Author Posted July 10, 2010 You do relize that as the man you pretty much have to be the one to go in for the kiss? yeah i know.....i guess the timing wasnt right. tips would help:laugh: i might say something corny like "im trying hard to not kiss you" and go in...lol
Green Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 yeah i know.....i guess the timing wasnt right. tips would help:laugh: i might say something corny like "im trying hard to not kiss you" and go in...lol Don't talk about it... Just do it. First tip... Get close to her... like ask for a booth and sit on the same side as her.... Just find a way to get close. Step 2 put your head close to her head. Like when you are flirting. A personal favorite of mine is to tell her I want to wisper her a secret.. then just kiss her instead. She will lean in close to hear the secret... and you will get close to wisper it... but then just kiss her. but really just keep it natural, don't ask, just get close... I mean if she lets you get real close... she will know somethings up. Just KISS HER!
Author john 07 Posted July 11, 2010 Author Posted July 11, 2010 Yea I'm hoping to ask her out again next Friday for dinner and drinks. Hopefully it will just be us. When should I contact her again?? Friday night was our second date. I texted her once in the morning again but that was it. One of my friends told me to wait a couple days before contacting her again... Or should I wait for her to contact me??
jessica29 Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 I think you should go for the next date.Don't wait when the girl call you. Maximum times girls are waiting for someone who will call them for date.Be confident and move to next step to kiss her.Good luck. Dating advice for women
Pfiend101 Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 Go for it bro. If shes kissed you before drunk or not you got the green light.
Author john 07 Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 Go for it bro. If shes kissed you before drunk or not you got the green light. I know at the clubs we were a little tipsy which is when we made out and stuff. Still trying to figure out if I really do have the green light. I'm going to ask her tonight if she wants to get dinner on Thursday or Friday. Then maybe walk around a park. Hopefully she says yes!
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