rosehips Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 I met a guy and we dated for about 2 months. We talked about what we both wanted and agreed we were looking for a serious relationship. We discussed our sexual likes/dislikes. Finally the time came for us to be intimate. I have certain sexual and oral skills that I told him about. I kept my promise and did what I said I'd do. After sex, he began telling me that I was "too dangerous and trying to make his d*ck mine". I haven't heard from him since. What the hell?!?!? Apparently guys have a coded language, none of this makes since to me. If there's a guy willing to soothe my heart by at least explaining to me what I did wrong according to his message, please help me understand. I feel horrible.
Serenitynow Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Did you ever think maybe he just used that as a BS excuse to hit it n quit it ? Dont worry yourself over the past. What are you to gain by finding out what he meant ? Nothing He took off after sex, justifying why he did it isnt going to heal anything. .
alphamale Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 looks like you waited 2 months to have sex, he probably was mad about that and once he got sex then he split
prettybaby Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 After sex, he began telling me that I was "too dangerous and trying to make his d*ck mine". I would burst out laughing if a guy ever told me that!
Gero Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 This whole thing sounds strange. You didn't try to bite off his d*ck did you?
SilentVoice Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 It seems like he was just looking for sex (mediocre sex). Got it ,and realized it was to good , and didn't want to get hooked . So he came with the b.s statement and ended. Ok I don't know guys are weird. Sorry you had to deal with this crap.
TheLoneSock Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Got it ,and realized it was to good , and didn't want to get hooked. So he came with the b.s statement and ended. That is not possible. Self destruction of a sexual relationship does not happen due to the sex being too good. (I think/hope you were just being funny anyway) I also laughed out loud at his comment about owning his d*ck. Umm, wtf? What a fruity thing to say. In my opinion, you dodged a bullet because he's clearly an idiot. And yes this was just hit it and quit it, nothing more. Chalk it up to experience, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him just looking for sex. No worries.
SilentVoice Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 (edited) That is not possible. Self destruction of a sexual relationship does not happen due to the sex being too good. (I think/hope you were just being funny anyway) I wasn't fully serious Edited July 10, 2010 by SilentVoice
kalikula Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Wtf? Now I'm really curious as to what your skills are... O_o
bac Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Finally the time came for us to be intimate. I have certain sexual and oral skills that I told him about. I kept my promise and did what I said I'd do. After sex, he began telling me that I was "too dangerous and trying to make his d*ck mine". I haven't heard from him since. What the hell?!?!? You should explain in details what you did to him ? I mean what your certain sexual and oral skills are. Why was it dangerous? How do you know that what you did was not painful? How did you try to make his d..k yours? Did you do the same things to other guys?
Knittress Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Yeah... seriously... what sort of skills? ::grabs pen and notepad::
Gallaxia Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Geez woman! What did you do? Maybe you P#$$ywhipped him in one go? If that's the case, BRAVA! ......might want to apply for a patent on that.
SilentVoice Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 That is not possible. Self destruction of a sexual relationship does not happen due to the sex being too good. (I think/hope you were just being funny anyway) . I agree with you completely,but based on this statement "certain sexual and oral skills that I told him about"... my reply was a little jaded. But then again we don't the whole story or the details of these certain sexual and oral skills. I wasn't fully serious
BobSacamento Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I think this is a hit it and quit it scenario.
fishtaco Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I'd have to experience your oral skills first hand before I could understand what he was thinking. Just kidding. I wouldn't worry about it. He's the one with the problem. You should consider this a bullet dodged. Basically it was his exit strategy, and a horrible one at that. Too dangerous... hahaha, that was lame. I'm sorry this happened to you, but it does happen. I would say in this situation, he's the one that should be embarrassed. You should shrug it off and move on.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Wtf? Now I'm really curious as to what your skills are... O_o Me to dose it evolve juggling knives and spitting fire from your mouth? or did you come at him in full mistress mode whip in hand? ive actually seen mistresses step on a guys member with pointy stellitos hard! Ok back to reality sounds like he was ether a duch bag OR he got afraid to fall for you/let you in I dunno I vote for duch bag it doesn't matter now best thing for you to do is move on.
SarahRose Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I met a guy and we dated for about 2 months. We talked about what we both wanted and agreed we were looking for a serious relationship. We discussed our sexual likes/dislikes. Finally the time came for us to be intimate. I have certain sexual and oral skills that I told him about. I kept my promise and did what I said I'd do. After sex, he began telling me that I was "too dangerous and trying to make his d*ck mine". I haven't heard from him since. What the hell?!?!? Apparently guys have a coded language, none of this makes since to me. If there's a guy willing to soothe my heart by at least explaining to me what I did wrong according to his message, please help me understand. I feel horrible. I am curious at what point in the dating you told him about your skills?
Gallaxia Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I am curious at what point in the dating you told him about your skills? Yeah, this could play an important part in what happened.
Serenitynow Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I am curious at what point in the dating you told him about your skills? Hopefully she returns to answer this. Although I wouldnt be surprised if she doesnt given the maturity of how the guys reacted to her post. .
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