thekaysal2000 Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 We were only married for a few weeks when I found out he was loosing his house. He lied to me and turned it around very good. He knew I had money in my savings that my husband left me when he died. I agree to help him only if he paid me back ASAP. That did not happen so....I left him after lending him a LARGE chunk of change to get him out of fore closer...... I filed for divorce and than I get this e-mail from his brother. T has cancer and it is in his lungs, back and left eye,,he may live three months or more the doctors are not sure. I told him when I loaned him the money that the private lender was over charging which is called usery. You can take it to court and get 3 time the amount you paid him. Guess what I was right and now he wants me back and take care of what he owes and than some. Even if this is true his lies said more of what kind of person he really is. His new will is divided 3 ways and his ex wife is in charge. Talk about a bunch of crap. I want what is mine and I paid my attorney to much as it is $7000.00 and I have not sign the divorce papers. I am getting hit on all sides...HELP
Ronni_W Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Interview a number of other attorneys -- use their "free initial consult" -- and then hire a new one. Also speak with a financial advisor who can help you make wiser investments. If you wish to get involved with your estranged husband's possible health issues, ask your former BiL for the names and numbers of the doctors and specialists who are treating your stbx; specific drugs and courses of treatments he is currently taking/undergoing; therapies and treatments that are being considered for future, etc. And/or ask him to let you know when the next appointment is, and you'll happily meet them there to hear what's what firsthand. Even if you get names and numbers, I highly doubt that the doctors will break patient confidentiality and talk to you...but point is to ask questions that will help you assess whether your stbx is suffering from cancer at all. *IF* you care, that is. Otherwise just tell BiL that you appreciate the info, wish your stbx well, but don't need further updates. Best of luck.
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