RegardingMe Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 My sil, has never been married. She is 40 and has been in an online relationship with a 20 year old. He came to see her this weekend and things were good. Plans for the future etc. He went home and she sent him a facebook message with dancing people with her face. His brother and bro's gf saw it. He is now pissed at her. She is mortified and making apolgies. He changed his status on facebook from in a relationship to single. I told her she deserves more and to tell him that. She is trying to get him back? Advice????
brainygirl Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 He broke up with her over a picture that showed her face? Uhm yeah, she needs to drop his butt and try not to think about him anymore. But really, its her life, you know. Probably best to stay neutral and out of her love life.
Serenitynow Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 He changed his status on facebook from in a relationship to single. LOL So he had it listed as " in a relationship " before he even met her ? What a loser, and do you really think she needs to be hanging around with a 20 yr old ? .
Author RegardingMe Posted July 9, 2010 Author Posted July 9, 2010 We the extended family don't think she needs to be with a 20 yr old. However, she appears to be searching for something. She also listed herself as being in a relationship.
Cracker Jack Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I always laugh when someone immediately jumps on Facebook to change their relationship status. He's...well, still a kid at this point. She shouldn't limit herself to someone like this. She needs to realize this, though, so no amount of advice will work here.
Author RegardingMe Posted July 11, 2010 Author Posted July 11, 2010 The only reason we give a fig about who she dates is because, she wants to involve us. Ask us for advice, and have us meet them. She also gets depressed, etc when she isn't realistic. So get this, now to save face she is has "confessed" he didn't come.
Feelin Frisky Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 Apparently she put up some kind of animation featuring herself. Perhaps it was perceived a creepy, or presumptive and frankly I would probably feel that way all things considered. It was a real downer that revealed some kind of eccntricity he would be way better off never seeing. She probaly thought it was a pleasant gesture and it backfired big time. The dude is 20 and sge 40? She probably should have known to tread a lot easier if her intent was to rob the cradle.
Gero Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 He changed his status on facebook from in a relationship to single. People and their facebooks...
Author RegardingMe Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 I think part of the problem is she emotionally repressed. Lived with mother till two years ago. Mom died and she is on her own. She is about 20 emotionally, physically 40.
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