amythan Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Hi, The final chapter of this saga. I have being talking every day with this guy for months - from february ! He contacted me all the time and made clear he was interested. We are living in different places but we managed to see each other. We always had a blast together, we had amazing sex and he was always caring and attentive. This week i went visiting him and he slept in my hotel - i was on a business trip. Then we start to discuss our relationship (because i asked) and he said "my heart is taken" !!! He lives with his girlfriend !!! He said i like you, i am extremely attracted to you and i find you very sexy. He said he considers me one of their best friends and wanted to do the fwb thing ... WTF we are not friends, i have friends, he pursued me and we got close but that's it ... I made clear that this will not work for me so it is obviously finished. I am a bit hurt but not that much. But my question is, if he is so happy in his relationship (and i truly think he is) why is he doing that ? This was not a ONS, it was something planned and that he wanted to continue it ... Unbelievable.
TouchedByViolet Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 But my question is, if he is so happy in his relationship (and i truly think he is) why is he doing that ? This was not a ONS, it was something planned and that he wanted to continue it ... Unbelievable. He is NOT happy in his relationship. This guy is a d-bag. Clearly a skilled womanizer and player. Whenever you think about him in a positive light just be reminded that he CHEATED on his gf with you and wanted to continue this behavior. He is terrible relationship material. There are much better guys out there.
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