Metal_Muffin Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 So, Im in a new relationship. We have been together for about 2 months and hes the first person ive been with since me and my ex of three years split about 9 months ago. We have been 'seeing' each other for 6 weeks before this. We get on so well, same sense of humour and we do really like each other. I wouldnt say love, seems a tad soon lol. Anyway, hes going away for 10 days on a lads holiday and although i trust him with my life, i have no issues at all about him cheating because i know he wouldnt. I do however have this nervous feeling, as though hes going to forget about me or something stupid. I want him to have an amazing time because he deserves it so im not txting him all the time because im being an idiot and have insecurities. I just dont know how to stop. Maybe the nerves are just me missing him but hes only been gone a day!!! We dont see each other everyday as it is. Hes back in 9-10 days time and hje already txt me this morning. I know people reading this are going to think im being a fool and i guess theres no real advice for me other then for me to chill out but i just needed to vent i guess =) x
potrzebie Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 it's easy to get worked up about stuff like this, especially when you don't know someone very well and you're not sure where he is regarding you. but, if he's already texted this morning and it's the first day, that seems pretty encouraging. bear in mind, tho, he may get wrapped up in hanging out and stuff and not be able to call or text as much as he (or you) would normally like. i guess it depends on your interaction when he IS around, y'know? try to keep busy with your normal activities, your friends--heck, try some new activities! just try to put your expectations to one side for a few days and then any contact will be gravy, just a nice turn of events, instead of you waiting, dreading, anticipating all day (or night) for that call or text. you are sweet to want him to have a good time; hopefully when he gets back, you can plan a getaway together too! good luck!
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