young&inlove Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 You could try calling and asking what the address to the shop is. I don’t know. By a strange chance, does she have a friend that you don’t approve of? I had a "bad" friend once that my parents didn’t like throughout high school and my husband didn’t want me to be friends with her because of what my parents said. I don’t know just an idea. I was reading all the other replies as well, they are right you know, where is your commitment to each other? Recently my friends did this EXACT same thing, she went "home" and hooked up with another man and told her boyfriend. But they have been together for 3 years and don’t know if they want to stay together and get married or break up. Make a commitment to her or break it off. I have a feeling that might help.
Author Liketherest Posted July 24, 2010 Author Posted July 24, 2010 on 2nd thought dude, don't even bother confronting her. just get rid of her and find someone worthy. pretty harsh, i wish I had and followed that advice with some other woman in my past. This one is definetly worth all this trouble. There is now a chance the maybe a logical explanation for all of this. If thats the case, I'll be working on an appoligie/explanation for my suspitions-an awkward moment. More info will be comming in the next few days and in a week or so I should know if she kept calling that number. Thanks for those of you that have taken this seriously.
U2RockZz Posted July 24, 2010 Posted July 24, 2010 "Google isn’t always right hun." when was the last time you proved it wrong.....
Chinook Posted July 24, 2010 Posted July 24, 2010 Dude, unless she's a police office under cover on a job, you need to get a grip. If she's a police officer on a job, pull yourself together and get a grip. Catch my meaning here...? Unless she's there in legitimate means, then she's no business being there and you need to get real with that. If she is, let her get busy with her job and get on with it.
Author Liketherest Posted July 27, 2010 Author Posted July 27, 2010 I'd rather be naive than a player...
Dexter Morgan Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 I'd rather be naive than a player... by being naive, you are just simply getting played. you are the prey of a player.
Bryanp Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 Why would you want to put yourself at risk for all types of STD's? Surely your life is worth more than this. Good luck.
turnera Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 Being naive is not the same thing as being a good person. It just means you're spending your time Giving to someone who is Taking and not Giving. What's the point? You're not a bottomless fountain of love.
Owl Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 The bottom line is this... ...the situation is that you believe she's likely cheating. What do you intend to do about it, or do next to prove/disprove it?
Author Liketherest Posted August 1, 2010 Author Posted August 1, 2010 The bottom line is this... ...the situation is that you believe she's likely cheating. What do you intend to do about it, or do next to prove/disprove it? I asked her about it and paid attention to her reaction. Looked/ thought of any possible misunderstanding and found one to look into; except there is a majior whole in it, according to her verbal response to my questions. I want to let her know that I don't approve of any such behaivor, not be naive, and not have to "check" up on her in anyway. If I felt like I had to check all the time, then I'd need to move on. Which for me is easier said than done.
Mr. Lucky Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 the "palor" is MW-MW she easily afford a date with the guy, that is part of why something like this could bother me so much. I am trying to go to the parlor and get that part out of my head. 3 pages and I still don't understand what's going on. I'm assuming your concern is that she was a customer at this "spa". Do you have access to CC charge statements and bank account records? Did you actually go to this place and see what type of business it is? Most women looking for sex don't have to pay for it... Mr. Lucky
Author Liketherest Posted August 2, 2010 Author Posted August 2, 2010 No CC, phone # that may or may not be related. Large ATM withdrawls that exceed her normal expenditures. I'm hopeful that this was a ll a misunderstanding. Things have improved between us as of late.
Darth Vader Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 No CC, phone # that may or may not be related. Large ATM withdrawls that exceed her normal expenditures. I'm hopeful that this was a ll a misunderstanding. Things have improved between us as of late. Ok, since she likes the services rendered, why don't you go and check out the services rendered, if ya know what I mean! Since she can go there, so can you, check out her reaction to that! Her reaction will tell you volumes!
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