LoveBites Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 I met this girl who I was really interested in. She lives 45 minutes away from me in a different suburb of the same big city. We had 3 great dates (in a week and a half) that always ended in a good night kiss. We were hitting it off for 3 weeks and then out of the blue we just stopped communicating after she was "too busy" to go out for 2 consecutive weeks. I took that as a way of rejection. After the 3 weeks of no contact she sends me a message saying? "hello stranger!! : )" I took this as a "why haven't we hung out lately So then we began to text a little for the next week but it was definately less flirty than the times before. I ask her if she wanted to hang out this week and once again she said something like... "Yeah i do!! I just dont think I am able to this week. How about next week?!" So the next week I text her again to hang out when she is available that week. Once again I get a response something like... "I am really busy again! But I will try to find some time!!" This gave me a little false hope. That week I never got a phone call or text saying she found time. I didnt ask her again because I was annoying myself asking her this much.... I stopped communicating with her again after that. Well, 2 weeks later she texts me saying "When we hangout in the future blah blah blah" This mean she still wants to hang out???? I am planning on asking her to hang out for the LAST time on monday. If I get another one of those "I cant maybe next week response" should I just END any hope I have? It pisses me off that she was able to meet 3 times in a week and a half but none for weeks straight.... Why do girls play these games?!?
lso802 Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 she either got really busy. hey. it happens. when i started summer school, i had no time for my now ex gf. that or she somehow lost some serious interest in you.
USMCHokie Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 I stopped communicating with her again after that. Well, 2 weeks later she texts me saying "When we hangout in the future blah blah blah" This mean she still wants to hang out???? At this point, she shouldn't have gotten a response from you. And she shouldn't get a response unless she suggests a specific time for a date. There's a VERY easy way to deal with women who play games. Don't play.
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