DenverBachelor Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Just hung out with a girl all night long kicking it to Led Zeppelin, The Beatles, Beach Boys and she's like a totally cool chick. She doesn't worry about nail polish or any of the BS my ex did but boy can she turn up the sexual heat. So guys, shut up and get out there. Life goes on.
skydiveaddict Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Easy for you to say, but I'm glad you had a good time
Author DenverBachelor Posted July 9, 2010 Author Posted July 9, 2010 Easy for you to say, but I'm glad you had a good time Well, it's probably a matter of perspective. If I've learned anything since October 11, it's that we really do create and reside in our own hell for as long as it takes to realize that we can just as easily create a heaven and live there. Ps: The point at which I was really able to let go and move on was the moment I realized that you can't keep swimming against the currents of life and that, sometimes, even through a lot of pain and suffering, we're learning to appreciate the better moments even more. You couldn't have brightness without darkness. Ying and Yang and all that jazz.
skydiveaddict Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 well said, I should take your advice, I just seem to be swimming against the current all the time
monkeymaid Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 i fought my motorcycle in the turns and crashed, i swam straight in in a rip tide and almost drowned, i ran a marathon going the wrong way and lost, i kicked the ball in the other goal and not only lost, but got my ass beat. start going with the flow addict
skydiveaddict Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 i fought my motorcycle in the turns and crashed, i swam straight in in a rip tide and almost drowned, i ran a marathon going the wrong way and lost, i kicked the ball in the other goal and not only lost, but got my ass beat. start going with the flow addict What if you cant find the "flow"?
GrayClouds Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Just hung out with a girl all night long kicking it to Led Zeppelin, The Beatles, Beach Boys and she's like a totally cool chick. She doesn't worry about nail polish or any of the BS my ex did but boy can she turn up the sexual heat. So guys, shut up and get out there. Life goes on. Beach Boys? Sorry DB, hang in there it will get better.
monkeymaid Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 What if you cant find the "flow"? quiet your mind and the flow will find you. acceptance of everything is where you will find the flow
GrayClouds Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 quiet your mind and the flow will find you. acceptance of everything is where you will find the flow As miyagimonkeymade say if that not work, then must try wax on, wax off.
skydiveaddict Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 As miyagimonkeymade say if that not work, then must try wax on, wax off. lol ok will do my best
monkeymaid Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 aiy!! remember. pick ONE thing and concentratefocuspower!
nihilanth100 Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Nice DB, it feels good knowing there are other awesome chicks out there. Unfortunately I haven't felt this yet. Today though, I did have a decent conversation with the girl cutting my hair. She was really cute, but at times I couldn't help sit there quiet caught up in my own thoughts. I just let it flow though when I did talk, was myself and felt comfortable. I guess i'm still clinging to that rock in the middle of the river that you could call my broken relationship, but I need to let it go and go with the flow.... yo. Tell you what though, last week there was two hands grasping the rock, now there is only one.
monkeymaid Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Nice DB, it feels good knowing there are other awesome chicks out there. Unfortunately I haven't felt this yet. Today though, I did have a decent conversation with the girl cutting my hair. She was really cute, but at times I couldn't help sit there quiet caught up in my own thoughts. I just let it flow though when I did talk, was myself and felt comfortable. I guess i'm still clinging to that rock in the middle of the river that you could call my broken relationship, but I need to let it go and go with the flow.... yo. Tell you what though, last week there was two hands grasping the rock, now there is only one. way to go nih! now let it go completely and rejoin the journey with the rest of us. ..its actually fun when you get your bearings
lso802 Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 true. true. there are always other girls. there was this one girl who i was heartbroken over for yrs. then an amazing one came along. we've broken up. thanks to these 2 though, i now realize there are others who are equally amazing if not more so.
McGrupp Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 SIGNED!!!!!!!! ****ING A listen there are so many cool ****ing girls out there. but **** the cool girls. find your **** that you LOVE to do...find that energy that fufillment not in women. i swear to god and then they will come. ive met and been with like 5-6 very special women since the reakup all are great but its ****ing unfufilling for me at least because im still nit loeading the life i dream of, but im getting there. get there and then find the woman = paradise
HeavenOrHell Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Couldn't have put it better myself!! Took me about 6-7 months until I realised I would stay in hell unless I made huge changes to come out of it, cos no-one else was going to do it for me. I then went NC and everything changed for the better I think dumpees should grieve for while cos we need to get those feelings out of our system, but there comes a point where we're going around in circles and we need to stop and get off cos we're not getting anywhere. Well, it's probably a matter of perspective. If I've learned anything since October 11, it's that we really do create and reside in our own hell for as long as it takes to realize that we can just as easily create a heaven and live there. Ps: The point at which I was really able to let go and move on was the moment I realized that you can't keep swimming against the currents of life and that, sometimes, even through a lot of pain and suffering, we're learning to appreciate the better moments even more. You couldn't have brightness without darkness. Ying and Yang and all that jazz.
HeavenOrHell Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Good post! SIGNED!!!!!!!! ****ING A listen there are so many cool ****ing girls out there. but **** the cool girls. find your **** that you LOVE to do...find that energy that fufillment not in women. i swear to god and then they will come. ive met and been with like 5-6 very special women since the reakup all are great but its ****ing unfufilling for me at least because im still nit loeading the life i dream of, but im getting there. get there and then find the woman = paradise
GrayClouds Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 SIGNED!!!!!!!! ****ING A listen there are so many cool ****ing girls out there. but **** the cool girls. find your **** that you LOVE to do...find that energy that fufillment not in women. i swear to god and then they will come. ive met and been with like 5-6 very special women since the reakup all are great but its ****ing unfufilling for me at least because im still nit loeading the life i dream of, but im getting there. get there and then find the woman = paradise AMEN BROTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!! Those who fail to do so are destined to repeat the same pain. Healing is not about finding yourself another, it is about finding your life. the sooner you learn that the sooner you heal, the better you learn that the better you heal.
nihilanth100 Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 You know, the more I am doing to improve myself after my break up the more I am realizing I really wasnt happy with myself before. And since I wasnt happy with myself, I wasnt as happy with her when I should have been. I realize how important it is to be content with yourself first... So yea, go out and better yourself, dont worry about women my friends, there are 3 billion of them and they aint goin no where. Though not sure if hooking up is exempt from my statement? :laugh:
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 i fought my motorcycle in the turns and crashed, i swam straight in in a rip tide and almost drowned, i ran a marathon going the wrong way and lost, i kicked the ball in the other goal and not only lost, but got my ass beat. So did I, and I wouldn't trade the world for what I've learned
Woggle Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 Sounds like ideal date to me. Women who have good taste in music are a great find.
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