rivermagic Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 My ex boyfriend (baby daddy) of 7 months. Stopped answering my calls, and dropped off the face of the earth basically. This bothers me because he was doing more with my child, bonding with him right when he decided to leave. I then learned he was spending time with a girl he used to sleep with before getting together with me. So I jumped the gun and sent him a nasty letter that said..Look Jack... I got a message about Bonnia, stating that you two were dating behind my back, for quite sometime... it was on my answering machine 3 nights ago, plus I seen you two together so kinda obvious.. I understand we are done and you have to come get your things. I find it ignorant that you are not even replying, or making any attempts to retrieve items that you left laying all over my house, I dont see why you can not store it at her house. You are not stringing me along anymore. FORGET IT! We will never get back together...you leaving things here is really pissing me off. Just give me a date, and I will personally leave so we do not see each other. You don't need to have anything to do with the child, just dont walk in and out so suddenly with this one as you did gerry. It has left him very confused, and hurt. Oh and i am not the crazy baby momma. I am just trying to get you out of my life, so you can focus on a family with her,and her two children (as the caller had said). Thank you.. Then the next thing I know he deleted me off his facebook. Before he deleted me I found a heart sent from her on his wall... So I wrote a broken heart above it. I blocked my call to ask him why, and he said it was because I wrote him a two page letter, and that I was crazy, He flew at me, as mad as I had ever seen him before. Then said he was not cheating on me with some girl, and he would be here in a few days to get his things, when i told him he did not have a few days he said well keep it then.. And hung up on me. After this he deleted me and blocked me from msn completely. So the new women approaches my friend at work and says that she is seeing my ex, and se doesn't want any trouble. aparently he told her I was going to make it hard on her. So this made me very angry I wrote her and I told her that I was no impressed by the way she was going through my friends, and if she had something to say to say it to me, also that she could have him, and that i am done with his lying self. I told her everything, and he apparently sugar coated most of it...because she was done talking to me about it,and that he did not cheat on me with her.. Now, I am stuck worrying about weither I should sell his things, keep them... I am not sure why he is leaving them here... anyone have any idea why he would tell me to keep them? I mean they are treasured items to him... he needs them.
listen_to_me_please Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 he doesn't want anything to do with you. he rather sell his things that have to deal with you. you need to seriously back off. your messing up his relationship. --- what you need to do is not contact him, get the hint and just file for child-support like all other scorn baby mommas.
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