inks1231 Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Hi, my ex girlfriend broke up with me about a year ago. Since then we have been seeing each other as friends almost everyday. Two days ago she came to my house and we were chatting in my bed. She was tired and asked me to give her a back rub. After a while we started making out, but suddendly she pushed me away and left my house. I called her and txt her but she diddnt reply. I tought that my feelings for her were over but I couldn't control my self. I feel gulty because I'm the one who started it. I think that she is dissapointed. What should I do??
deux ex machina Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 (edited) My best friend is a guy. We don't chat in bed, and I don't ask him for backrubs. Reads like the making out was mutual, then she pushed you away...I'm just not understanding why you feel guilty. [EDIT: Just read it was because you started the make-out. The only thing you can do if you want to be her friend, and only her friend, is try to explain as best you can.] Edited July 9, 2010 by deux ex machina
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Do nothing. Wait for her to contact you. Then, pretend it didn't happen and don't mention it again, and don't put yourself in a position for it to happen again.
Author inks1231 Posted July 9, 2010 Author Posted July 9, 2010 Thank you for your advice. I wrote her a letter letting her know that I was sorry an I telling her that I will not bother her until she wants to talk to me. Should I give it to her?
listen_to_me_please Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 she's seeing someone else. she likes you as a friend
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Thank you for your advice. I wrote her a letter letting her know that I was sorry an I telling her that I will not bother her until she wants to talk to me. Should I give it to her? No, do not give it to her. There really wouldn't be a point as she would not take it like you would hope she would.
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