BigProc Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 Thanks for reply SD. Yeah i know exactly what you mean. I just want it al lto go away, i'v been feeling ok in last week and its all come back again. I think its because she arrived back from a family holiday yesterday and while she was over there she wouldnt be meeting her other ex. Now shes back I cant get the thought of them meeting up last night. The image is killing me and i cant stop thinking of them together, i know they will have met up last night. Very unhealthy and self-destructing thoughts.
jen_r Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 I'm going to my lake house for a whole week this Friday to hopefully escape things. Doubtful since my Ex's lake house is right next to mine!!! He won't be there, but I know his family will. During that week my Ex is moving 10 minutes from me...NICE HUH?! When we break up he moves closer. I think that is why he wants me out of his life so badly, I think he thinks "ohhh I'm going to be living in Boston, I'm sure there are sooo many other girls to meet." Yah good luck meeting some whore in a bar. I've lived here my whole life and found you, 45 mins away!!!
MJEW Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 Today has been a better day, been 2 years since divorced, still think about him alot, ended my relationship with my boyfriend because I am always thinking of my ex husband, not fair to him I know, one of the reasons why I ended it. Just have to stop blaming myself for what I did wrong and how I hurt him, I can't seem to stop the guilt and the pain that I feel. Trying to deal with it, leave it behind me, close the door to him, it's just hard. But I am trying, at that's the most important thing. I just need to learn how to live again.
wrencn Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 Today is day 3 of NC, 2 weeks since he moved out and 10 days since I saw him last. I'm feeling much better today. I'm starting forget him which seems weird since we've been married for 11 years. I know the rollercoaster is going to take me down any day now, but I'm enjoying the good days.
Thorgs Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 Today is day 3 of NC, 2 weeks since he moved out and 10 days since I saw him last. I'm feeling much better today. I'm starting forget him which seems weird since we've been married for 11 years. I know the rollercoaster is going to take me down any day now, but I'm enjoying the good days. Throw those hands up and enjoy the ride!
cbonilla1987 Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 It's been a really bumpy road, one filled with self-realization, and epiphanies. I did some stupid things after the break up and know I have learned a lot about myself and things to change for the better. But the thing that cheered me up was Butter's explanation of how he felt after Lexus ( the Raisin's waitress ) broke up with him.
jen_r Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 I'm drunk and bugging out as to why I post my problems here? Is this normal?? Christ, I mean, majority of the people in the world don't need help in getting over someone, do they??
Scruffydog Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 I'm drunk and bugging out as to why I post my problems here? Is this normal?? Christ, I mean, majority of the people in the world don't need help in getting over someone, do they?? If they are really in love with them Jen.... each and every one. Sd
BigProc Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 I need help and its already happened to me before, so iv got experience
wrencn Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 Throw those hands up and enjoy the ride! WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!! Day 4 of NC. Not sad. Don't miss him. Feel very very blah though. Bored out of my mind. What to do? what to do?
Thorgs Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!! Day 4 of NC. Not sad. Don't miss him. Feel very very blah though. Bored out of my mind. What to do? what to do? Better than I'm doing. Ex txt me at 5am yesterday and dumb me didn't put my phone on vibrate cause no one ever calls or txts. Then we end up meeting up with her daughters for lunch and had a great time. Now I'm back to square 1 and my head is about to explode because I miss her more and more everyday. I hate this
wrencn Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 Better than I'm doing. Ex txt me at 5am yesterday and dumb me didn't put my phone on vibrate cause no one ever calls or txts. Then we end up meeting up with her daughters for lunch and had a great time. Now I'm back to square 1 and my head is about to explode because I miss her more and more everyday. I hate this Aw, I'm sorry. Is there any hope for the two of you? This seems like a nice gesture. I'm only fine because I haven't seen him. I avoid him like the plague that he is!
Thorgs Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 Aw, I'm sorry. Is there any hope for the two of you? This seems like a nice gesture. I'm only fine because I haven't seen him. I avoid him like the plague that he is! She's a big flirt, but I think she's over me :'( Glad you are having an up day.
smk Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 I am doing pretty crap today - I even found a new low point today - almost 7 weeks after the break, and here I thought I was making progress only to fall deeper into despair... (sorry had to have a baby rant)
wrencn Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 She's a big flirt, but I think she's over me :'( Glad you are having an up day. If she is over you why is she texting you at 5a.m.? Hang in there!
smk Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 Better than I'm doing. Ex txt me at 5am yesterday and dumb me didn't put my phone on vibrate cause no one ever calls or txts. Then we end up meeting up with her daughters for lunch and had a great time. Now I'm back to square 1 and my head is about to explode because I miss her more and more everyday. I hate this thorgs jump back onto NC - think of this as a pitstop and get back on it - and now ignore her... block her number on your phone... Dude you dont need the mind****.....
Thorgs Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 If she is over you why is she texting you at 5a.m.? Hang in there! I don't know, I'm so confused right now. I think I'll just join the Army so I can get away from it all, since I have nothing going for me and no family or friends that care. Thanks gal.
Thorgs Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 thorgs jump back onto NC - think of this as a pitstop and get back on it - and now ignore her... block her number on your phone... Dude you dont need the mind****..... I've been going crazy. Not angry crazy, just like...AHHHHHHHH crazy. I agree. Life is short, but at the same time, I don't want to go through it with that "what if" lingering in my mind. I try focusing on myself but I today I could barely get out of bed...my head was down the whole day at work, and I can't get my tush out of my house to go take a walk. Food has no meaning to me anymore and I was dead set on quitting smoking but I picked up a pack today after not smoking for a few days. My life is in ruins right now
jen_r Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 I was doing okay earlier today, but now I want to email him so badly. But i know I can't. Why doesn't he just f**king contact ME. This is pure torture.
skydiveaddict Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 I was doing okay earlier today, but now I want to email him so badly. But i know I can't. Why doesn't he just f**king contact ME. This is pure torture. Why do you want him contacting you? So you can re-live it all? DON'T contact him.
skydiveaddict Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 I don't know, I'm so confused right now. I think I'll just join the Army so I can get away from it all, since I have nothing going for me and no family or friends that care. Thanks gal. Seriously that's not a bad idea. Nothing takes your mind off a girl like a tour in Afghanistan
Thorgs Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 Seriously that's not a bad idea. Nothing takes your mind off a girl like a tour in Afghanistan Well I have no career (no college degree) and a crappy job and no one that cares about me. I figure why not protect the ones I love (even if its not mutual).
skydiveaddict Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 Well I have no career (no college degree) and a crappy job and no one that cares about me. I figure why not protect the ones I love (even if its not mutual). do it. I did
Thorgs Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Well, went for a run and ran into you when I was on a jog. Thanks for honking your horn...makes me feel like a dog.
wrencn Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Well I have no career (no college degree) and a crappy job and no one that cares about me. I figure why not protect the ones I love (even if its not mutual). Go Air Force. I am former army too.
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