john 07 Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 So i asked this girl out on a second date to the movies to keep it simple and she accepted. (by the way no kiss or hug at first date where we had a great time talking to each other having dinner and having drinks). She says after the movie that we can hang out with one of her friend and student. She told me her student wants to meet me since im fluent in spanish and her student is in the process of learning the language and never met someone from spain........Im worried now that she asked to hang out her friends/student after..........yikes..i dont want to be falling into this friends only zone!!! What can i do??
Diezel Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Jesus. I already told you what to do. Respectfully decline. Tell her you just want to do something YOU want to do on a 1 on 1 basis. Come on man, you REALLY are going to go with her to see Eclipse and then go hang out with her friends??? You're FZing yourself at a ridiculous pace. Just tell her that if she doesn't want to do something else than watch a movie and spend the night getting to know each other, that maybe you two should reschedule for another night so she can go hang out with her friend.
Secure Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 I invited a friend along on a date twice. One because I wanted my friend to meet the guy who I had gained much interest. And the other to not be caught alone with the guy if my boyfriend showed up.
Secure Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Be upfront with her. Tell her you were hoping to spend one on one quality time with her. And that you don't mind meeting her friend, but at another time.
that girl Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Are you sure she even know that this is a date? It doesn't sound like she even knows that.
Author john 07 Posted July 9, 2010 Author Posted July 9, 2010 Are you sure she even know that this is a date? It doesn't sound like she even knows that. Why do you say this??
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