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Today I decided to cut bangs in my hair. I like them so far. But anyway, my boyfriend texted me while I was doing it and I told him that I was cutting it. First thing he said was "Why? I like it long though :(". I told him I wasnt cutting it shorter... just adding bangs. Then he said "I thought it was fine the way it was. I like the one in the picture with it long." He was referring to my facebook profile picture. I told him well, I already cut it. And he just says "I guess." .....

 

For some reason I'm feeling sad/annoyed by his comments. Am I being too sensitive?

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He'll get over it. My boyfriend doesn't want me cutting my hair, he likes it long-- but guess what? It's my hair and I do what I want with it. =)

 

Don't worry about your boyfriend liking it or not, as long as YOU like it is all that matters. You're not changing who you are, just a slight change in appearance, so he shouldn't be affected too much. =p

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I wouldnt go as far as calling this a 'red flag' just yet, hes just annoyed cause he remembers you as you were and not everyone likes change!.

He'll get over it im sure, well providing you havent cut all your hair off. Im not keen on short haired women and have told my other half this but i love her for who she is, and would still be with her if she did so.

As stated its your hair after all.

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Lol I think some men are sensitive about hair. The hair is the same length as before. I just added bangs (and I think they look cute...)

 

Ok um here's a before/after:

 

Before:

 

http://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l278/flutistgurl26/34363_138953542784331_1000000905813.jpg

 

After:

 

http://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l278/flutistgurl26/07082010263.jpg

 

http://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l278/flutistgurl26/07082010342.jpg

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I think its a nice little transformation personally :)

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Hair...you know....it's sooooooooooo amazing....

It grows back.....

 

Bit like nails, really.....

 

It's not like you're having a full-sized full-colour skull-and-crossbones tattoo across your chest....with a knife through the eye-socket... and a worm coming out the mouth.

 

You should have told him you were getting that done, then surprised him by saying - "Hah! Fooled you! Just kidding! I had bangs cut in my hair!!"

 

He would have been soooo relieved then.....!:laugh:

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