whatitdo Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 OK, Ill try and keep this short and simple. 6 years ago Me and her dated for almost three years and she said she needed a break... 2 weeks later she was seeing somebody else and i found out on a social network site. a year later we ran into one another and we dated for 6 months and had a huge arguement(the girl i was seeing before her showed up at her job), she said she needed to think and never came back. 6 months ago we ran into one another. Month later went out of town for the weekend. She wanted to move in and i was against it. Said we should date and move slowly.. needless to say she moved in. Now she says she wants to move out and go back to the dating stage. I said i was against it... that it seems like she is doing the same thing all over again and i am not going to fall for it. She spent the next hour or so explaining that she loves me and wants us to make it work but feels like this is what is best for us to be able to make it work. Still said I wasnt sure and she said that either way she feels more comfortable getting her own place and we continue dating. If the only way i will stay in the relatinship is if she stays here then we should just break up now.... what do i do?????
Daniel89 Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Its her excuse to start dating other guys, but if it doesnt work with them, she will have you to fall back on.
seibert253 Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Kick her to the curb and don't look back. You deserve better.
hurt and devastated Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 That's about the same as her saying seeing other people will strengthen your relationship. You need to break the cycle and move on, because you're the only one that's going to get hurt.
spriggig Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 You're a nice guy. She thinks she should marry a nice guy but after six months she gets antsy for the bad boys again. If you play your cards wrong you'll end up married to this girl in a few years. Then she'll cheat on you. Be sure to come back after this happens so we can all tell you "I told you so."
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