PlumPudding Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Okay so don't get me wrong here, I am VERY skeptical of internet products. VERY. But having just gotten dumped seems to have clouded my natural judgement. Anyways, I've been hearing good things about this "The Magic of Making Up" book by T.W. Jackson. Like, I went around to see online if there were any real reviews or anything. So far the reviews I've found are just the basic reviews other people give to help sell the product and aren't real customers at all. But then I went on youtube and saw an in-depth review with comments saying that "It actually works. O.o" with some story behind that or "This is good not just to try and get back with an ex, but it helps you for future relationships or even if you aren't in one yet." Has anyone ever used this before? Not saying I'm desperate for it to get my ex back, but in the in-depth review the guy showed some things like how to cope best after a break up, how to, when you KNOW you're doing something to push him/her away but don't know what to do, how to help that situation, and how to move on. Seems fairly useful. And a "fast-forward" technique to help with most anything. But I guess basically my question is, has anyone ever read this book? Or know someone who has?
monkeymaid Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 i bought it 1 year and a half ago, and now i get spam from them every day. the book basically says what the wiser folks on this forum are saying except it is used to get her/him back instead of just moving on heres the basics 1. give them a hand written letter of acceptance of the break up 2. go nc and get into (or fake it) a normal headspace ie:workout, makemoney,finish school whatever,just become better. 3. if they dont contact you after 30days, call them up for casual coffee/lunch/whatever 4. make it fun!!! 5. leave while you are having a good time 6. if they contact you play aloof, and make them work for it. ...guys, get the ass soon! girls make them wait 7. if they dont contact you, call them after a week. 8. if you get them back then good, if not, then you are a better person and its time to reall move on! it just tells you to be cool, make yourself a fun person and reevaluate your role in the relationship. ...fix it and try again. ..if it doesnt work for you, then your a better person! dont buy it.
AlwaysConflicted Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 I have it as well. It's as Monkey described. It uses No Contact to win back your ex. The problem is that most ex's have moved on before they even officially breakup with you. They are emotionally detached. So it doesn't matter if you wait 30 days or 3 years. The bottom line is that if your ex wants you back, they will reach out to you and ask for forgiveness.
Author PlumPudding Posted July 11, 2010 Author Posted July 11, 2010 I have it too. I can email it to you if you want?? Wow, hey, that would be very nice of you! I've looked and I don't suppose I can find a way to "private message" a member on here so . . . for just cautionary reasons I'm going to give you an email I had when I was a kid, haha, don't mind how dumb it sounds. [email protected] (I really was a morbid tween). I'm a little paranoid when it comes to internet security and all that jazz. But seriously, that would be wonderful! Thank you so much. And on a different tone: are you using the "technique" now? Or have you used it before?
spyyder Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 (edited) I have the ebook, and I am going to use parts of it myself. There are bits that I think are true, and there are bits that I think aren't quite right, but the bulk is pretty decent in my opinion. If you don't manage to get it emailed to you by someone, I WOULDN'T BUY IT. I'm not saying its a bad e-book, it just isn't suitable FOR YOU. I read your thread about you and your ex and believe me this book is NOT suitable for you, and your issue. The main idea of the e-book is to make you into a new person to get your ex back, over time and through effort. Your ex obviously isn't going to just want back into a relationship that he wanted out of, so your going to have to better yourself and turn yourself into a new person so when you ask him on a date, it seems as if he's getting a date from a new person. It even mentioned getting a new outfit, and not wearing stuff that reminds your ex of your past. You also have to turn into a better person and have a better life than your ex, to show that he/she is better off with you. From what the e-book says it actually sounds pretty logical, but I'm not sure if it works in practice as I only got it yesterday. The e-book requires lots of effort and waiting. From what you said in your last thread, your ex isn't worth the time or effort. Edited July 12, 2010 by spyyder
Author PlumPudding Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 If you don't manage to get it emailed to you by someone, I WOULDN'T BUY IT. I'm not saying its a bad e-book, it just isn't suitable FOR YOU. I read your thread about you and your ex and believe me this book is NOT suitable for you, and your issue. The main idea of the e-book is to make you into a new person to get your ex back, over time and through effort. Your ex obviously isn't going to just want back into a relationship that he wanted out of, so your going to have to better yourself and turn yourself into a new person so when you ask him on a date, it seems as if he's getting a date from a new person. It even mentioned getting a new outfit, and not wearing stuff that reminds your ex of your past. You also have to turn into a better person and have a better life than your ex, to show that he/she is better off with you. From what the e-book says it actually sounds pretty logical, but I'm not sure if it works in practice as I only got it yesterday. The e-book requires lots of effort and waiting. From what you said in your last thread, your ex isn't worth the time or effort. Haha, thanks!! I was leaning towards that anyways. If I get it through email, I'll just take a look at it. Ahhh, I get the drift. Funny thing, I've done most of that already, haha. I've matured so much over the summer and he doesn't know it because he didn't talk to me, and now he won't know it at all. xD Whatever. Although if it does work for you and your ex, let me know! I'm curious! (not so I can do it too, I'm just curious) Haha, thanks. Sometimes it takes someone out of the relationship saying this for someone to really understand how much crap they were taking while in it. Thanks a lot, I'm slowly starting to understand that he actually might not be worth the time and effort.
Thierro Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 (edited) It’s basically doing all the NC stuff that you can find here on LS: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t81399/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t84894/ So you are better off reading posts here than read the E-book. Edited July 12, 2010 by Thierro
truthalwayshurts Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Can someone email me the ebook please? My email is [email protected] My Msn address is: [email protected] Really appreciated if someone can send me this book. Regards
tashp Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 I have it too. I can email it to you if you want?? [email protected] I would really appreciate it!!!
lullaby Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 I would love to have it too. I was always curious about it and love reading books. I'm from Argentina and I can only buy it online and it's a mess. [email protected]
TheEdge1980 Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 Can someone please e-mail me a copy of the e-book? My e-mail address is: [email protected] Thank you
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