Mace Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Just this past week my parents came out and told me i cant see my boyfriend anymore and that we can only text each other and nothing else..... and my boyfriend said that if we dont start finding a way to see each other he is going to break up with me and im CRAZY about him i love him alott and i will be in tears if he doesss..... i REALLYYYYYYY need adviceeeee........ PLEASEEEEEEE HELP ME....
Green Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 How old are you? Take a deep breath. Its going to be OK lots of people go through this and live.
Author Mace Posted July 8, 2010 Author Posted July 8, 2010 How old are you? Take a deep breath. Its going to be OK lots of people go through this and live. Well we are both 16 and my parents are not letting me see him at all they went over board and put camaras everywhere and than paid this guy to be by my side 24/7
caseyisrok Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 holy crap paid a guy to be next to you 24/7?? Well my opinion would be to tell your parents to sit down somewhere quiet and have a talk with them and tell them you really like this boy and you can also tell your bf that he should try and talk to your parents and tell them how much he cares about you.
Green Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 If you think talking to your parents might help then you should. Otherwise maybe a counsler at school would be nice to talk to about this stuff.
niamh Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 This happened to me when i was your age and believe me they didn't leave off. I had been with the guy for 2 years at the time and I was 15 (nearly 16) when it all began and he 19, i battled with it for another 2 1/2 years until i went to uni. I finally could see their point that he was completely useless and really not good for me, however I am now much better looked after with my current but every week cannot stop thinking about my ex. My advice is only battle with this type of relationship with your parents if you think possible you could be with him in the significant future (children, marriage etc.) if you don't then the sooner you listen the better as I battled against my parents and friends for so many years I still feel like I need to associated with him even though i've seen sense. Although I feel your pain I really didn't think my fokes had it together until i got much older, but hey I will always have a soft spot for him.
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