learned2 love 2late Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 Happened to me sucks bigtime, 7 months and still hurts alot. After almost 4 years she left to have sex with a guy she works with and who is already with someone WTF
Nikki Sahagin Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 I'm really sorry to hear about that! She'll regret it. Leaving a relationship for a quick fling? The novelty will wear off!
Author learned2 love 2late Posted July 7, 2010 Author Posted July 7, 2010 Well apparently there together now worst pain ever!
whatadeer26 Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 Peoples true selves come out in the end. I am sure you hear this a lot but you're better off. I personally would never date a girl who had a boyfriend because I would never want that done to me. Unfortunatly, not all guys are like me. Get on with your life she is a B****. Do everything and anything to remove a chances of communication if you haven't already. It is 3 weeks for me and I keep accidentally finding things on facebook that piss me off. I know I need to stop but I get this thought that I can handle it when I feel good, but I know I can't. I guess I just like being hurt by her. I say this because you and I both need to move on with our lives and stop pining for girls that obviously don't care about us.
This Hurts Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 Same here, though it's not clear (I never confronted her about it). She told me a couple of weeks later that she broke up with him but who knows if that's true?
zerovandez Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 I was with my girl for 10 years and it happened to me. Just keep it moving man. Good luck to you.
Sadcakesleo Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 i know it will drive you insane. Happened once to me so I'm sane now. My ex and I were together for 5 years, been six months since are breakup and she has a boyfriend now. It does suck sometimes but when you think of them together just wear it. Eventually it will fade and you can move on with your daily routine.
EmperorR Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Happened to me as well she wanted space but wa someone else
YellowShark Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Happened to me too. Seven years I stuck by her and she had and EA that went physical. I caught them on my deck at 3:30am. Even worse he WAS a good friend - WHO IS MARRIED AND WHO'S WIFE IS 8 MONTHS PREGNANT! How sick is that? Seriously. How sick do you have to be to screw over your friend AND your pregnant wife? How sick is she to screw me over AND disrespect his pregnant wife? The EX and MM have concocted the story that "I imagined it all." His wife bought it hook, line and sinker. So do many others in our social group because IT IS so sick and twisted it's hard to process. I didn't buy it though, because I saw the sexts, and I caught them red-handed. I left 4 days later. Been 5 weeks of NC so far. It's so painful because they turned my whole life upside down and don't show remorse. Obviously I realize now they are sick toxic people who have no morals or integrity. I don't need that sickness in my life... nor can I ever trust them again. Still. I am heartbroken. Betrayed by two people I trusted implicitly.
kjayscopio Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Happened to me as well just 3 weeks ago actually and we had been together for 2 years. I went away overseas for a couple of months and she started cheating immediately after I left (of-course she denied the whole thing). After I got back I threatened to leave her if she didn't tell me the truth and all she sent me was a text message saying, 'leave me alone, I'm now pregnant and engaged to the guy I cheated with. Just stay away from me.' That was the last I ever heard from her and now I'm left to pick up the pieces alone. It sucks but trust me after they leave you usually see them for what they truly were. It will get better. I'm struggling right now but i know and believe there is light @ the end of the tunnel.
kjayscopio Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Happened to me too. Seven years I stuck by her and she had and EA that went physical. I caught them on my deck at 3:30am. Even worse he WAS a good friend - WHO IS MARRIED AND WHO'S WIFE IS 8 MONTHS PREGNANT! How sick is that? Seriously. How sick do you have to be to screw over your friend AND your pregnant wife? How sick is she to screw me over AND disrespect his pregnant wife? The EX and MM have concocted the story that "I imagined it all." His wife bought it hook, line and sinker. So do many others in our social group because IT IS so sick and twisted it's hard to process. I didn't buy it though, because I saw the sexts, and I caught them red-handed. I left 4 days later. Been 5 weeks of NC so far. It's so painful because they turned my whole life upside down and don't show remorse. Obviously I realize now they are sick toxic people who have no morals or integrity. I don't need that sickness in my life... nor can I ever trust them again. Still. I am heartbroken. Betrayed by two people I trusted implicitly. I can relate to you man. I found out my ex was cheating as well. Only difference is my ex got pregnant while cheating and got engaged behind my back. Then she tried to lie that she had dumped me 3 months ago, that I had been stalking her and couldn't let go. Even though we never broke up and I had proof (recent pictures, texts, emails etc) that we were still dating. I haven't heard from her ever since. To think this was a woman who said she'd never hurt me and wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. smh.. I'm hurting too but hopefully things will get better
USMCHokie Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Happened to me as well just 3 weeks ago actually and we had been together for 2 years. I went away overseas for a couple of months and she started cheating immediately after I left (of-course she denied the whole thing). After I got back I threatened to leave her if she didn't tell me the truth and all she sent me was a text message saying, 'leave me alone, I'm now pregnant and engaged to the guy I cheated with. Just stay away from me.' That was the last I ever heard from her and now I'm left to pick up the pieces alone. It sucks but trust me after they leave you usually see them for what they truly were. It will get better. I'm struggling right now but i know and believe there is light @ the end of the tunnel. This is terrible...sorry it happened to you...but in these cases, you don't threaten to leave, you just leave...and you're right, it does get better in time...because in the end, you're so much better off without them...
listen_to_me_please Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 (edited) I can relate to you man. I found out my ex was cheating as well. Only difference is my ex got pregnant while cheating and got engaged behind my back. Then she tried to lie that she had dumped me 3 months ago, that I had been stalking her and couldn't let go. Even though we never broke up and I had proof (recent pictures, texts, emails etc) that we were still dating. I haven't heard from her ever since. Hey dude that happen to me too!. I also never heard from mine again. I suppose these people never loved us, then again who knows, I can't imagine what goes through a whore's mind then again once I found out I broke up with her and threw her out, I guess she knew that was going to happen... To bad I called her one day and cried like a girly man telling her "I just want her to be happy". That was like 2 years ago, I never heard from her since. I think she must of loved me at one point. I don't know anymore, I just write it off as her being a whore and me being a fool. I wonder if she still hates me. I wonder what happen to her. Edited July 9, 2010 by listen_to_me_please
Melrapuo Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Happened to me, too. She ended up dropping the new guy after a month and a half, and tried to talk to me again. I was dumb enough to assume that it meant she wanted me back. When I found out she was hooking up with yet ANOTHER guy, I stopped talking to her completely. Two years later, she's currently single, and I've been with my gf for over a year and a half. Isn't life interesting?
Username37 Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Well, my ex didn't leave me for another man, but she did hook up with some dude quickly after the break up. Felt like they knew each other before the break up and I guess were talking. The guy was probably waiting for the right time to jump in.
ALombard Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 Happened to me also. I was with my ex for 4 1/2 years. The first time we broke up (2 1/2 years into the relationship) I found out she had cheated on me, then I find out she is dating some random guy, of course she lies about it. 2nd time we split I she starts dating another guy right away, I then find out she was actually dating him 1 month or 2 prior to us even break up. 3rd she once again starts dating a brand new guy 1 day after our break up, so I will just believe that she had something going with him for a little as well. Anyway, to the point, seriously f*ck girls like this. They aren't worth our time, especially the ones who can so easily lie to our faces and tell us they love us and act all wonderful only to be f*cking around behind our backs. Oh yeah and no one be like me, I got addicted to the drama and games. Peace!
sumdude Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 I was with my ex for 7 1/2 years. We were only married a year and a half when she cheated, lied and left me. Looking back I think it may have been going on for a while behind my back... looking back further it may not have been the only time. It's been 3 1/2 years and every once in a while the anger and bitterness of the betrayal rear their ugly heads. I thought I had forgiven her because she just didn't know any other way to be.. but the pain is still there a little bit.
Author learned2 love 2late Posted July 9, 2010 Author Posted July 9, 2010 i dnt think i will heal until i find that special woman..............which dnt ***ing look likely anytime soon! coz there so many goddam whores! ARGH!
magicpotion Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 This just happened to my last Wednesday. My fiance and I were together for 11 years. She was the absolute center of my world. Things were good, but then we started getting in dumb fights 2 weeks ago, she started dressing extra cute for school and work. We had plans on Tuesday to go to the beach, she called and canceled... told me to come over at 8. She wasn't there, I waited all night. She turned her phone off. I went to her work the next day and caught her on lunch. She talked to me briefly for a minute and walked away. Sent me a 6 page text message break up. She wouldn't return my calls, texts, emails.... I logged into our Sprint account. That day she started calling a new number and talking for hours each day. I know now that she went to the beach with him that night and out for drinks... and then ended things with me. I loved her so much. I'm so hurt that she could drop me like that, and to have somebody lined up the same day. I have never felt so empty and alone. And now my confidence is gone. I know one day I'll recover, but I feel I'll never find as beautiful and fun of a woman... or if I do, she will not like me. My ex and I had an amazing sex life... but knowing she is sleeping with someone already and I come home to an empty bed each night... is crushing me. I think all this awful painful things. I wonder how much better she likes it, if he's more endowed... how happy she is. And how she can't be thinking about me at all. She has someone to fill her time. I have been unable to go to work all week, have not slept, lost 10 pounds because I cannot eat. I am losing all.
Author learned2 love 2late Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 i feel your pain dude. i mean check this guys im literally talking to 6-7 women constantly on a daily basis and they ALL have BOYFRIENDS but they are still emotionally involved with me very deeply. Wow just cnt beleive some women these days.
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