earthfireuk Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 (edited) Hey, Im not sure if I should post this here but I didn't know where else to put it. My ex and I have been broken up for 5 weeks and been in Low Contact. I finally decided to never contact her again 4 days ago and I have been feeling much better for it. When we were together she had a health issue which was never addressed (bleeding sometimes after sex). I randomly googled it today and health service website said that if it happens it is very important it is checked out right away. I couldn't help but broke NC and texted her telling her what came accross and that she should go and get it checked out to be safe and that I just had to tell her when I found out. I am really worried now that she will think that I did this in some pathetic, needy attempt to contact her again. It was honestly just a random thing I googled and I couldn't live with myself If I didn't tell her what I had found and to get checked out. She still means the world to me and I would hate for her to leave it if it could cause her harm.Did I do the right thing? Do you think she will think I did this just to contact her? As I was writing this she called me. I think it worried her but I explained to her that I just wanted her to be safe and to get it checked. We had a 10 min chat.. i was happy and bubbly but she sounded down and like she found it pretty awkward and hard to talk. I really didn't want to have to speak to her or even text her... Did I do the right thing guys? Edited July 7, 2010 by earthfireuk Title incorrect
HeavenOrHell Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 I think it was the right thing to do as it could be a serious health problem and you can't really muck about with things like that, however, are you sure you didn't google it and then contact her mainly cos you wanted to contact her? Only you know the answer to that. Keep up NC, it did wonders for me, I started feeling better within a few days too, it gets easier and easier. Me and my ex are now with new partners and we are good friends. Hey, Im not sure if I should post this here but I didn't know where else to put it. My ex and I have been broken up for 5 weeks and been in Low Contact. I finally decided to never contact her again 4 days ago and I have been feeling much better for it. When we were together she had a health issue which was never addressed (bleeding sometimes after sex). I randomly googled it today and health service website said that if it happens it is very important it is checked out right away. I couldn't help but broke NC and texted her telling her what came accross and that she should go and get it checked out to be safe and that I just had to tell her when I found out. I am really worried now that she will think that I did this in some pathetic, needy attempt to contact her again. It was honestly just a random thing I googled and I couldn't live with myself If I didn't tell her what I had found and to get checked out. She still means the world to me and I would hate for her to leave it if it could cause her harm.Did I do the right thing? Do you think she will think I did this just to contact her? As I was writing this she called me. I think it worried her but I explained to her that I just wanted her to be safe and to get it checked. We had a 10 min chat.. i was happy and bubbly but she sounded down and like she found it pretty awkward and hard to talk. I really didn't want to have to speak to her or even text her... Did I do the right thing guys?
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