steyr26 Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 What should i do? Im going to college and ive been dating this girl for a year. Im crazy about her and im almost certain that i will make everything work. one thing about me is that if i have something good in my life, something that make me happy, i dont let that go. i trust her. i know shes always going to be home with open arms. my parents were high school sweethearts, my sister has a boyfriend that has been in her life for a long time and they are getting married. i want the same thing as them... and i know my girlfriend wants the same thing. deep down in my heart i know she feels the same as i do. i never have second thoughts. Can i have some peoples opinions on if im making the right choice? Has anyone gone through the same thing as me? *second thoughts* these arent second thoughts im asking this so i have an idea of what im getting myself into. cause i know it will be tough. and i want to know how to make it work. thats why im asking if people have the same situations I need assurance more than an answer really.. My parents and sister didnt marry young.. they made it work. they were in the same situation as me. but its different between them and me and my girlfriend i meant high school sweethearts as in. they met eachother and they stayed with eachother till they got married. this october is their 25th ann. they got married at 25 and i mean "make it work" as in i will go the extra mile for her.
madjac74 Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 (edited) There are no assurances in life (in my opinion) but it sounds like you both want the same thing so there is no reason it wont work. How far away are you going to be from her? Edited July 7, 2010 by madjac74
Enchanted Girl Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 Most people who post on this forum have been in a LDR if that's what you mean by the same situation as you. I'm in one now and I never doubt that I want to be with the guy I'm with either. He's also my first love and he lives across the country from me. It has been this way the past five years. I'm not going to lie to you though. Sometimes I think or feel like it's not going to work out between me and him. We have had some really rocky points in our relationship, but I never doubt that I want it to work out hopefully in the end, even when we are fighting really hard. I love him and want to be with him even when I am miserable with him. XD
nemi26 Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 hmm nobody can say anything really to make you feel better ..times the most important thing and well i got with someone at 14 and was with them over 3 year but now we've finished and i'm with someone else. tbh i thought i was gunna be with my ex forever but things change, people change.
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