shaquira Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 we were together for 2 months he broke up with me on june 21 told me he needed time" to think things over" b/c i said something hurtful to him how long does he need.. a mutual friend that knows him since they were in highschool feels he will call me back apparently he has forgiven an x-gf for worse! am i crazy to go his job.. wait outside his workplace to talk he hasnt called, and i dont have his new number no i am not a stalker!!! but i beleive you go for what you want in life this nc thing is driving me crazy i need to vent!!!!
graywolf Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 Hey. Personally I think NC doesn't really work in certain situations. LIke its different between guys and girls. When I was really angry at my girlfriend, I said I needed time and wanted to be alone for a little so I can think. But really I wanted her to talk to me, and I wanted to see if she would still talk to me and try to help make things better. Maybe you gotta give that a shot, because you guys aren't really on a break or anything unless he declared that. IF he did, well then ionno what to do because I"m currently in the same situation and don't know what to do. NC doesn't seem like it works in terms of trying to get your ex back... It's only for moving forward.
Author shaquira Posted July 7, 2010 Author Posted July 7, 2010 (edited) greywolf-----he broke up with me!! so yes theres nc but he is the reason he didnt want to talk to me thats why he hasnt called me yet i have no way of contacting him he moved last week(not coz of me) what to do he is is someone that doesnt like to be single for long and i know this for a fact i dont want to look desperate but im going crazy Edited July 7, 2010 by shaquira
graywolf Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 Oh wow, it's too early in the morning. I didn't even see that you posted that. You know what I think, I think it may be time to move on. YOu can try talking to him again, but 2 months is too soon to want any kind of break/break-up. IF after two months and that happens, it's obvious that it wouldn't work out anyways. Do you really want someone who breaks up with you and never even really gave you a chance??? I do wish you the best though, but I just truly hope you move forward and find someone more deserving of your feelings.
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