raisondetre Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 Hi there For about two or so months, a guy I met a few years ago, has been talking to me a lot - texting, the odd phone call, coffee dates. He has expressed he liked me, was interested, etc etc. Problem is - he lives hours away. He never fails to not call back, and is very true to his word However, a week ago, he was in town. We went on a date, to dinner & a movie, and we shared our first kiss. I went home very happy, and he texted me saying he too was happy.. we hung out a little over the next few days. His main reason he said as to why he was here was to catchup with "the guys".. but he still made some time for me. However, one night, he had had a little to drink, and I (now in hindsight) stupidly said he could stay - we didn't sleep together that night, but in the morning, after cuddles - we did. It felt right, and when he left he seemed happy. But now.. everything seems different. I'm just starting to feel like perhaps he was simply just lonely those few months and liked talking to me, and (maybe) felt like it was a convenience to have me there when he was in town, to sleep with me.. I know I should have probably waited, but it felt right at the time, and I still don't regret it. Before he came down, he told me he wanted to seriously talk about our situation, which he hinted at the potential of trying to work as a couple, with him working here every odd few weeks (he's a Physio & moves between our two cities), but that talk never happened..admittedly, I never brought it up either, but I'm just unsure why he would invest so much of his time into this previously if he just wanted to sleep with me (it's been going on since around early April - with a few casual dates & visits). Just wondering what your opinions were? Sure, he is still here until the weekend but he rarely talks to me, and if he does, things just seem a little different. I really like him. It's a bit sucky.
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