whatadeer26 Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 I have been in No Contact with my ex for about 2 weeks. Initially it was hard, but once I deleted her as a facebook friend it became much easier. This weekend I ran into a friend of mine out (Who is friendly with a good friend of hers and who she see frequently out now because she goes to this club a lot). We were talking and he brought up how my ex had came up to talk to him and introduced herself as my ex and all. I played it cool while he was explaining the story, still bothered me because it was the first time I ever was referred to as her ex,and I told him I really didn't want to talk about her (he was very chatty if you catch my drift). I made a comment after he told me that I need to move on and i'm "on to the next one". Well, I pretty sure that her friend saw me hook up with a girl at the club that night, because he gave me a dirty stare-down which couldn't have turned out better for me. Well it appears now that she has planned a trip to Vegas with her friends and has made it a point to invite him to come over Facebook. This Facebook sh*t is so pathetic. I can see right through this invite. She knows he won't go, but she is inviting him, because she knows he is the only semi-mutual friend of ours. Facebook is so pety. Does anyone agree with my logic here? Or have a similar story?
jaxguy Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 Facebook does indeed suck. I just found out that my ex gf is talking to a guy via facebook who was this dude she went to school with. My ex gf is attempting to hang out with this guy simply because he still hangs out with alot of the friends they went to high school with. Her thinking is that if she hangs out with him then she will feel like she did back in high school. Its really stupid because the guy is a real douche and she already went out with him right before we met and she did not like him at all. I wouldn't even give her or that other guy the satisfaction that they got to me. In fact if you are some place and they show up either leave or stay as far away from them as you can. They will come looking for you because ex's always want to know what the other is doing. Especially in a club or bar atmosphere.
supersub Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 I have been in No Contact with my ex for about 2 weeks. Initially it was hard, but once I deleted her as a facebook friend it became much easier. This weekend I ran into a friend of mine out (Who is friendly with a good friend of hers and who she see frequently out now because she goes to this club a lot). We were talking and he brought up how my ex had came up to talk to him and introduced herself as my ex and all. I played it cool while he was explaining the story, still bothered me because it was the first time I ever was referred to as her ex,and I told him I really didn't want to talk about her (he was very chatty if you catch my drift). I made a comment after he told me that I need to move on and i'm "on to the next one". Well, I pretty sure that her friend saw me hook up with a girl at the club that night, because he gave me a dirty stare-down which couldn't have turned out better for me. Well it appears now that she has planned a trip to Vegas with her friends and has made it a point to invite him to come over Facebook. This Facebook sh*t is so pathetic. I can see right through this invite. She knows he won't go, but she is inviting him, because she knows he is the only semi-mutual friend of ours. Facebook is so pety. Does anyone agree with my logic here? Or have a similar story? Totally. However its not Facebook, its the people that upset you. Face-book is the adult (i say adult very loosely here, because prolonged use renders you a bratty child) equivalent of the school yard. Cliques, and total narcissism (I was guilty too). I wasn't on it before I met my ex, and I have totally deleted my account since I split, cos its just a popularity contest, a bunch of total horse****. People do the most shallow things on FB, especially during a breakup. The good news for us is when it truly comes to it. Its easier to tread shallow water. If you are off it you create this amazing mystery as to where you are and what you doing. For me it really has been out of sight, out of mind, and its helped me heal quicker. Plus you are not wasting time on it, you are putting that time to other more positive use. Just my ten cents. Sup.
Ilovecake Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 (edited) Don't blame this on facebook. Block her and you will not see any of her posts. If you can't stand the guy why are you checking his facebook, for her posts? I think the problem is that you're looking for info and it's biting you in the butt so you're blaming facebook and your ex. Stop checking up on her and you won’t find out stuff that hurts you. Edited July 7, 2010 by Ilovecake
YellowShark Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 It's funny but mankind some how survived for centuries before Facebook was invented 6 years ago... Anyhow I've posted it a million times and I shall post it again... Facebook is where narcissists go for validation. End of story.
Author whatadeer26 Posted July 7, 2010 Author Posted July 7, 2010 That is so true. People always think they are being clever on that damn site. People need to fill their ego. I wish it stayed that you had to have a University email address to get an account.
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