Author SadandConfusedWA Posted July 11, 2010 Author Posted July 11, 2010 Sounds like he's desperate. Totally inappropriate online dating topic... You are probably right. I think that I am just going crazy at the moment with online dating - I am sure the novelty will wear off soon.
Star Gazer Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 You are probably right. I think that I am just going crazy at the moment with online dating - I am sure the novelty will wear off soon. You just need to do some serious weeding... but reasonable weeding. Talking about "love" at ALL (even in the hypothetical, or conceptually) in correspondence with online prospects should be a huge red flag, weed-worthy. Way too much, way too soon.
Author SadandConfusedWA Posted July 11, 2010 Author Posted July 11, 2010 You just need to do some serious weeding... but reasonable weeding. Talking about "love" at ALL (even in the hypothetical, or conceptually) in correspondence with online prospects should be a huge red flag, weed-worthy. Way too much, way too soon. I think that we are both the same age (I turn 32 later this year). The good news is that there is no shortage of available men left in our age group
WalkInThePark Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 OMG! What website are you finding these guys on because I would love to have a guy like you describe. So far, all the successful men I've found don't have time to date because the only thing they've wanted from me is sex. And they rarely have time to meet for lunch, or anything outside of a hotel room. And I hate that. I only WISH to meet a man like the ones you've described. I would not be intimidated. I would enjoy whatever conversation they had, boring or not. And if they offer me any aspect of sharing there life, beyond sex, that would be a dream come true. Please, get over whatever self-esteem issues you have because you have no idea how much worse it could be. Butterflying, is that you in your avatar? Or is that the way you want to be seen? Do you dress that way? In that case, don't be surprised that men only want sex from you.
Author SadandConfusedWA Posted July 17, 2010 Author Posted July 17, 2010 I'm confused. Is this the same guy you were talking about inviting to your housesitting place to watch dvd's on your other thread, or is it a different guy? Nope, completly different guy.
shadowplay Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 I have also been chatting to another (NEW) guy on OKCupid for the last 2 days. He is 39, so a bit older than I would like but he is HOT. He seriously looks like an older version of TBF's H He also seems to enjoy discussing topics such as unrequited love and such, which men tend to not like talking about (except on LS of course). He comes across as having a bit of depressive/dark side so we are similar there. He wants to meet next week. Just meeeeet him. Stop prejudging! You'll have a much better sense when you do.
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