eca Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 I've been broken up & no contact w/ my ex for 2 months. We were a LDR, which we were both experiencing for the 1st time. Anyway, I'm beginning to wonder why I keep thinking that he is "my soul mate." Before we even dated, but were on that flirty level, we fought. When we started dating, we fought. About 5 months in, I contemplated breaking up with him, but never did. Same thoughts at 6 months. Eventually I did break up w/ him, but only because I felt forced to..I felt like he didn't want the relationship anymore, & he was withdrawing. The thing is, I've heard the "Honeymoon Period" can last up to 2 yrs. We dated for 10 months, but were unofficially together for 3 months prior. But, within a MONTH of meeting/flirting, we fought. It was over petty things, and as I said, I'm sure the distance added..but isn't that just WAY to early to be fighting? I mean..what did we have to fight about? Idk, I can't even remember. Anyway, I think I'm doing better at moving on. But, sometimes I still think, "damn, hes my soul mate, i let him go." I started thinking about this last night, & just wanted some opinions. He couldn't have been my soul mate if we were fighting that early on, right? Oh btw he's 22, I'm 20..and 3 weeks after we broke up he had a new gf, and is still with her today. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks guys.
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