PlumPudding Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 Hey, my first boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me last night. (I'm 19 by the way) See the thing is, we were VERY, VERY close up till the end of the semester, and then when summer started, he began not to talk to me at all. And then yesterday he said I wasn't part of his "dream life." and said that what he was doing was wrong. And that was that he was wanting to date me but didn't want to marry me; that he was keeping me all to himself. So he dumped me. I know that there are other guys out there, but the problem with me is that I have such gol-darn picky tastes. I hardly find anyone attractive, (personality and looks) and I'm frightened I won't find anyone else. It's probably a fear most people have at the time of being dumped, but I was just wondering how I could best get over all this sadness? And the college I go to is very small and we're in the same major. I will see him everyday. Like literally, every day. And he was my only friend on campus because I'm very shy and find it hard to make new friends. I really need help here, what can I do?
amazed Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 sounds similar to what just happened to me. i think what we need to do is just look after ourselves and not dwell on what has just happened. its going to hurt but in time you'll get over it. just focus on you and find something to keep yourself occupied im sure you're a lovely girl and you shouldnt be relying on one person. you should work on overcoming your shyness and go out and meet new people. everybody fears not meeting somebody else but trust me... you will. ive felt like that in the past. right now i would give anything to hold my ex again, i still love her. i know that if i want her to feel the same way again i need to get myself sorted and not mope around. im not going to go chasing her, that would just seem pathetic. instead i want her to regret leaving me.
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