amazed Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 Hi, My girlfriend finished with me yesterday. She sent me a message on facebook saying "we need to talk" and then when she came round said she wanted to be friends. I told her no. She started crying and asked if I never wanted to see her again. I do... but as more than friends. OK so what led to this... She had seemed very distant lately. We had went on holiday for a week and had no sex. In fact we hadnt had any for months. I think this put a strain on the relationship. A random guy kept texting her and this had really annoyed me for some time. Also led to a couple of arguments, she said hes just a friend but we'll see in time i guess. Right now... I miss her more than anything. I went out last night with friends and when I woke up this morning she was trying to talk to me on facebook. Asking how I was etc. I made sure the conversation was short lived. This makes me think is she just trying to be friends? or is she begining to regret her decision? I know that I'm a good looking guy and could get another girlfriend. But my issue in the first place was that I can be very picky and i love her. Am I doing the right thing by trying not to contact her and giving us both space? Im just trying to sort myself out. I really hope we can get back together. I think im going to not contact her for a few weeks, see how I feel and then ask if she wants to go out and do something. Like go for a walk. Is this a good idea?
matildack Posted July 8, 2010 Posted July 8, 2010 Do not contact her for at least a month.. remember, she is the one that broke up with you. My boyfriend recently broke up with me as well, for another girl, who isn't even sure if she wants him anymore. Acting clingy will only push her away. It is definitely hard, but you need to follow through with NC. Last year I was in a very serious relationship, and we mutually agreed to end it. I cut all contact with him, started dating others, and suddenly, he wanted me again (only I didn't want him anymore, haha). If it's meant to be, she will come back to you.
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