BiAxident Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 So, I'm twisting in the wind waiting to find out if my XGF wants to give our relationship another chance. 4 weeks ago, she was ready to try it, but evidentially I waited ONE WEEK to long to come around, and now although we hang out regularly and are very affectionate with one-another, she is actively looking for something/someone "better" than I am. 10 weeks ago, when she originally asked if I wanted to try the relationship again, I was cautious. I was the one who got dumped by her years ago, because she felt we were in different places in our lives (I wasnt ready career wise to have a family). This time, she assured me that she was willing to wait the 4 years it would take me to finish law school, and that she would support me and be able to put up with us not spending much time together (we live 40 minutes away). Evidentially I was too cautious for too long because now, even though we still hang out and have sex and stare longingly into each others eyes, she is not IN love with me. In retrospect though, I'm wondering if I didnt make the right move in being cautious? Some women have said that if a guy didn't directly respond to a relationship question after 4 weeks, that they would move on. Yet, if she couldn't wait ONE more week, when we were still hanging out, I was being loving, and not seeing other women, how would she have made it through four years of only seeing me now and again?
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