Bryanp Posted July 9, 2010 Posted July 9, 2010 You need to get paternity tests on your children. Your wife is a serial cheater. She has cheated on you with your best friend and other men. Clearly she knows that there are there are no consequences to her actions. She has played you for an absolutely fool. I doubt all of the children are yours.
mark982 Posted July 10, 2010 Posted July 10, 2010 i do hope, that he's no longer your best friend. sure glad i don't have 1 like that.
Darth Vader Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 Maybe not so. Neighbor found out when he was on travel his dad would come over and spend the night with his wife. She had two kids. Neighbor went for test, neither kid his, both his dads. OMG! What happened? Did the man beat the $%^^# out of his father? What a Double betrayel! His dad fathered his own grandchildren. I hope he Divorced his wife and got out from under that situation, please tell me he did...... I'm sure that he'll never want anything to do with his father ever again, there's just some things you don't do, this is one of them!
Darth Vader Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 This is my problem right now I don't want to be wondering that years from now. Right now things really are good between us things are going great she's done everything I have ask her to do to regain my trust,I see her phone she calls me if she's even going to be five minutes late I have her passwords to email and facebook. So has also agreed to therapy and counicling but things are going so well I almost don't want to go to it. I can forgive for it all I am just having a hard time with my own pride and I am so jealous now and that's just not me and I don't want it to be. She had a lot of problems growing up and she's is bi polar and I also was not giving her attention she needed but I never cheated on her. I know that's not a excuse for what she's done but we really talk really talk and I feel like we can be closer and make it. I no I will never forget it but will I always think about every day. Just remember, you can always Divorce her, even 10 years from now, after all, no matter what she does or says now, you always have the right to drop her and Divorce her at any time! You're not Obligated to her for any reason, she cheated and broke those vows, therefore she forfited any right/s to bicker and/or to complain about what you choose to do, It's your right to choose what you want! And don't stay for the children, why should you have to suffer for the rest of your life for her screwing around on you? As you can clearly see, she doesn't love you, she's a CAKE EATER! You deserve bettter, someone who will be faithful to you!
Author spickeri Posted July 17, 2010 Author Posted July 17, 2010 Just remember, you can always Divorce her, even 10 years from now, after all, no matter what she does or says now, you always have the right to drop her and Divorce her at any time! You're not Obligated to her for any reason, she cheated and broke those vows, therefore she forfited any right/s to bicker and/or to complain about what you choose to do, It's your right to choose what you want! And don't stay for the children, why should you have to suffer for the rest of your life for her screwing around on you? As you can clearly see, she doesn't love you, she's a CAKE EATER! You deserve bettter, someone who will be faithful to you! Thanks for all the advice guys I still am unsure what I will do or how I will deal with this but I am going to take my time and not make a quick choice. As for my kids it doesn't matter if there mine or not I love them and wouldn't matter but I am very sure they are mine,they all three look alike and the first one was long before the affairs.
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