jennifer4 Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 take a women to a "gay" club for a first date? Or any date? I met a guy who's 27, I'm 37. Well that's where he suggested going, I said "isn't that a gay club?" He said yes but there are straight people who go. Well I agreed and it was ok but definatly not my thing. I don't even like clubs but went because I liked the guy and wanted to get out of the house. He told me he was given 2 numbers while I was in the bathroom! And a guy walked behind him and grabbed his ass.. I am thinking he's bi. I really don't know why he wouldn't tell me. I even asked him! SO i guess I know the answer to my own question, just need some confirmation.
jakinbandw Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 Well as far as it goes I am a straight guy who doesn't drink and I met my girlfriend at a gay bar. My friends took me there because it has good dance music. Even if we were to stop dating I would go once in a while. So it isn't outside of the realm of possibility. On the other hand I would say it is likely he is bi. Thought I have to ask, is him being bi really such a bad thing?
Author jennifer4 Posted July 6, 2010 Author Posted July 6, 2010 him not telling me he's bi is wrong. I even asked. I just don't know if he'd be with guys while we're together.
alyssatranswarrior Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 (edited) Maybe he really likes gay club music? If he doesnt really listen to that music at home, its certain hes bi... There is also an "outside" chance he took you there to see if YOU are bi, IE women hitting on you and he'd watch and see if theres a chance he might get a 3some someday. His bi-dar could have been firmly fixed on you ma-lady. Edited July 6, 2010 by alyssatranswarrior
Author jennifer4 Posted July 6, 2010 Author Posted July 6, 2010 There really was no difference in music. I'm leaning toward him being bi and yes that's a dealbreaker. Just my preference. Thanks for the replies.
alyssatranswarrior Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 No straight guy in my world would. I guess it is good homophobia has a somewhat limited population now, Isn't it. That place was overrun 50 years ago.
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