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So I live in NYC with my dad, and am on summer break, and currently don't have a job, so during the day, I go out trying to get some girls numbers minimum. As you can see in my earlier thread, I met one, got her number, and blew it. But what are so good places to meet girls, and what are some good ice breakers/convo starters? The "nice shoes/hey I like your shoes" clearly isn't adequate, and when I went to Madison Square park to read today in hopes of meeting someone, I wasn't sure how to open to other girls. Where can I go to meet girls who are interested in students as opposed to legit adults with careers? What are the good areas? I live in the east 30s currently, and but what are some other areas where a 21 year old undergrad male can pick up some honeys?

 

PS: something which may hurt me is that none of my school friends live in NYC, so consider that when you respond, if it makes a difference, tho I know a 5'2'' male going out for girls alone is rough.

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and currently don't have a job

 

Just tell them the above info about yourself.

 

Its seems a lot of women are quite attracted to that nowadays.

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So I live in NYC with my dad, and am on summer break, and currently don't have a job, so during the day, I go out trying to get some girls numbers minimum. As you can see in my earlier thread, I met one, got her number, and blew it. But what are so good places to meet girls, and what are some good ice breakers/convo starters? The "nice shoes/hey I like your shoes" clearly isn't adequate, and when I went to Madison Square park to read today in hopes of meeting someone, I wasn't sure how to open to other girls. Where can I go to meet girls who are interested in students as opposed to legit adults with careers? What are the good areas? I live in the east 30s currently, and but what are some other areas where a 21 year old undergrad male can pick up some honeys?

 

PS: something which may hurt me is that none of my school friends live in NYC, so consider that when you respond, if it makes a difference, tho I know a 5'2'' male going out for girls alone is rough.

 

Student bars near NYU or Columbia are always a good bet. Places like Greenwich Village has tons of fratty bars with beer pong, etc. It's hard to meet people in NYC period, though, so good luck.

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I don't know but please inform me when you find out.

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Student bars near NYU or Columbia are always a good bet. Places like Greenwich Village has tons of fratty bars with beer pong, etc. It's hard to meet people in NYC period, though, so good luck.

do you have to go to those places with other people, or can you go stag and have a good chance of getting a number or a hookup (or maybe more)? I'm dying to end this spell of virginity and worthlessness, and I haven't hooked up with a girl since 3/21.

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do you have to go to those places with other people, or can you go stag and have a good chance of getting a number or a hookup (or maybe more)? I'm dying to end this spell of virginity and worthlessness, and I haven't hooked up with a girl since 3/21.

 

Don't lose your virginity to a random bar skank. That sounds terrible.

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Don't lose your virginity to a random bar skank. That sounds terrible.

I always pack a condom in case I do get lucky

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