singlelife Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 A female friend of mine shared that most women have been hurt. Therefore they feel they have to test men. They do this by making them wait to have sex or playing cat and mouse even after you do. Sometimes they push he dude away even when they want him. So can you women explain your thinking behind this.
Serenitynow Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 More women need to make guys wait to have sex. This forum is getting overrun with " i had sex with him too soon, now how do i make him have a relationship with me" posts. .
Engadget Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 More women need to make guys wait to have sex. This forum is getting overrun with " i had sex with him too soon, now how do i make him have a relationship with me" posts. . Careful, as a guy saying I like it when a girl waits I basically had to defend my position from a horde of LSers who vehemently disagreed. Women who choose to wait show restraint and class to me. A girl who jumps you on the first date would make me wonder how often she sleeps around, honestly.
New Again Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 A female friend of mine shared that most women have been hurt. Therefore they feel they have to test men. They do this by making them wait to have sex or playing cat and mouse even after you do. Sometimes they push he dude away even when they want him. So can you women explain your thinking behind this. I very much doubt that "most women" feel they have to test men as a result of being hurt by playing games with them or making them wait for sex. Therefore, I think you should ask your friend to explain what her thinking was in making such a statement. I think that anyone who "makes" someone wait for sex probably very simply isn't ready to have sex with that person. I think that some people, women and men, play games, and it's usually due to a combination of immaturity and lack of interest.
norajane Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 A female friend of mine shared that most women have been hurt. Therefore they feel they have to test men. They do this by making them wait to have sex or playing cat and mouse even after you do. Sometimes they push he dude away even when they want him. So can you women explain your thinking behind this. Testing and playing games? No. Being cautious and getting to know a person and their true character before giving your heart and mind to them? Yes. If you want to call that testing and playing games, that says more about your perspective than hers. But it's actually the purpose of dating - wading in from the shallow end rather than taking a high dive into the deep end without looking and getting hurt.
Choboto Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 A female friend of mine shared that most women have been hurt. Therefore they feel they have to test men. They do this by making them wait to have sex or playing cat and mouse even after you do. Sometimes they push he dude away even when they want him. So can you women explain your thinking behind this. as most men have been hurt also....
Star Gazer Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 Testing and playing games? No. Being cautious and getting to know a person and their true character before giving your heart and mind to them? Yes. If you want to call that testing and playing games, that says more about your perspective than hers. But it's actually the purpose of dating - wading in from the shallow end rather than taking a high dive into the deep end without looking and getting hurt. Agreed. I think many people act/don't act out of fear. Most women want to know what's in the water before they dive in, previous hurt or not.
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