CailinPig Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 analysis needed! my ex is with a new girl now about 4 months and out of no-where sent me a dirty text saying he was thinking of me. this brought up a well of emotions in me and i've been more upset since. he said he loves this new girl but the reason he has sent this text is cos he's 'not fully over' me and he gets 'emotional bursts' now and then. i feel very depressed and down. i feel like me and him should be together instead of this 5 year limbo we've been in. analysis please!
Ilovecake Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 Assuming he knows that you're into him: Dirty message = attempted booty call not emotional outburst. If he had feelings for you he would take YOUR feeling into consideration and not approach you with a dirty text. If he wanted it to be more than a quick lay he would discuss some sort of relationship. Sounds to me like he's looking for some action on the side and you being the most likely available victim he'll start with you. My number one rule in life; I do not mess with attached men, no matter what they say their feelings for their significant other, since it's most likely a lie to get you into bed. No matter what you'll end up with the short end of the stick. Did you say you have been letting this guy lead you on for 5 years? Time to let it go if it upsets you.
Author CailinPig Posted July 5, 2010 Author Posted July 5, 2010 ilovecake (great name by the way!), yes, he was my first love, we were togetehr 3 years. it can't be a booty call you see and the reason why is: he is now living in russia and i am now living in ireland!!! he is russian but used to live here in ireland. i would move on if i could. but i feel unlovable, and we have been seperate for about 3 years now ( but were seeing each other on n off during that time) and i only met one guy who there was no spark with. I haven't found anyone in that time. So I move onto what? to who? I feel so depressed.
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