SimpleSam Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 Alright, I have a friend of mine that has been engaged to her boyfriend for little over a year. They have been seeing each other for four years. Apparently, she looked on his computer, and found his search history. Come to find out, he had been looking at escort service websites. And not just ones from large cities, but the regional area that he covers for his business company (he's a sales rep). He claimed that he was doing "research." Needless to say, she was fuming and had a huge fight with her fiance. She flew back this weekend, and wanted to hang out. She told me everything that had happened. Now, I'm one of those type of guys that does not try to be a problem solver. I don't like getting into the middle of relationships, especially considering that I know her fiance pretty well. However, this is a particularly large problem. All I told her was let cooler heads prevail, and when she goes back she needs to sit down and have a long talk with him. I didn't bring this up while conversing with her, but her fiance did cheat on her when they went to university together (this resulted in their first break up). What do you think she should do? Break off the engagement or try to work it out? FYI: they are planning on getting married next November 2011.
GrayClouds Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 Not really your business, but she will save herself bigger hurt in the future if she walks now.
ComputerJock Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 Does she know about this site, also online advice - look at 'how to catch a cheating SO' sites include cheaters and ls.
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