jeffery Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 cut a long story short went out with a girl for 2 and half years she then dumped me... is in a relationship with another guy now, apparently she is so so happy... she texts me and adds me on facebook which ignore. other day she Whiged to know if i still had the scrapbook we made together.....as she wants to look at it....what the hell?> is she really that happy with him
monkeymaid Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 in short, no. ..she is insecure to no end and needs/wants to be in this dramatic situation so as to feel more excitement in her life. she wants the excitement ofthe new guy,but is mad at the prospect of not having the power over you. ignore her
SouthernSunshine Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 in short, no. ..she is insecure to no end and needs/wants to be in this dramatic situation so as to feel more excitement in her life. she wants the excitement ofthe new guy,but is mad at the prospect of not having the power over you. ignore her Well said!
ahashakeheartbreak Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 Most girls (younger ones, and sadly some older ones as well, and yes, I myself am a female!) get a thrill out of a knowing they have a guy on a string. It's fun for them to know someone is pining for them, or still likes them. They like to feel wanted by people that 'can't' have them. NC. Ignore her. I now believe very strongly that when someone breaks up with you, that's it. They should get what they asked for, no more you. They don't deserve to have you in their life anymore. Think of it as just giving her what she asked for. Because, well...that's what it is.
graywolf Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 I will conclude that girls are not women until they can commit truly to a relationship without playing stupid games with innocent men. Forget her. This same thing happened to me too. I was in this relationship with this girl for over 2 years, she went on a break with me, was with another guy within a day (probably seeing each other while we were still together). She told me how unhappy she was, that she still loved me and wish she could be with me... All i said was, "right... you're like stupid or something because you did all of this to yourself." and i easily got over it. Trust me, its wayyyy easier to get over it when they actually DO start seeing other guys! HAHA, because you start to hate them for that! See, now this current girl who I deeply love but broke up with me 4 days ago, well that's not so easy for me because I don't even know if there's another guy or what the deal is. It leaves you thinking more when you don't know. Now you can just get over her because she's seeing someone else Might be shallow or whatever you may call it, but hey you should be caring for yourself first. That's obviously what she did. Hope this helps!
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