fragile28 Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 My significant other cheated on me and gave me a std. I was heartbroken because all I have been is loyal to him. I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore and he didn't respond. I set back and thought about the situation and I am not ready to give up on this relationship. but I don't think that he wants to be with me. I have done every under the sun for this man and he just throw our relationship away like a piece of trash. I have been with this man on and off for 13yrs. I felt this was my soul mate and that we would together for eternity. He now talks down to me and acts like the situtation is my fault when I am the victim. Everyday that go by has me thinking about him more and more. I don't no what to do scared to be alone.
graywolf Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 sad, hard truth, but please leave this guy already. He's not worth it if he cheated on you. You deserve way better. Men really don't ever change, and while you're looking for someone better and find someone better (which you definitely will), he'll notice that and come crawling back. But please don't take him back, because by then you'll know you found so much better than what you had, so why would you go back to such an unhealthy relationship. You know its for the best. So just start NC, move forward, and you will find someone better. I've been cheated on, I'm still young but even I knew to move forward. And I was right, found better things in life than a cheating girl who I thought I loved.
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