Pepparz Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Ok I'll try and keep it short. I'm into this chick. We've seen each other like 3 times. Last week me and some friends + the girl and her friends went to the same club. It was the first time I talked to her (although we didn't talk much). We made out by the end of the night but things were cut real short as we all had to go quickly. I was a douche for not asking for her number then... Anyways, I'll be able to see her again this week when we all hit the same club together again. So I am going to ask for her number. I'm thinking I might just try and get her aside sometime in the night and talk to her individually. Then chat for a bit and say something like "hey I gotta go find my other mates, give us your number and I'll talk to you later". Do you guys think this is an alright approach (Remember I haven't talked to her that much)? I just don't want it to be an awkward situation or for her to feel awkward. I don't see what else I can do cause for most of the night she is going to be with a tonne of her friends and I'm not asking for her number in front of everyone else. Plus, I could try and get intimate with her again but I don't think thats the right approach since I might come off as someone who only wants to have sex lol. Or should I actually ask her out on a date next time I see her? Something like "hey could I get your number and take you out to dinner sometime?" But I don't really think asking her out on a date whilst in a club is a good idea lol. Anyways opinions please thanks.
Gero Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 I'll admit that I don't have a ton of experience dating and I haven't picked up a chick in a club before, but why don't you just give her your number? I've asked chicks for their numbers in the past and for me, it seems like I always get a better response by giving them my number instead. I don't think I have ever given my number to a chick that didn't call me later on. That's just me though. You could do something like hang out and maybe try to get intimate with her if you get the chance and then say you have to split and give her your number. It might keep wanting more and then it will progress from there. Once again, I'm not totally sure on this. I'm not some dating guru or anything, but that's probably what I would do in that situation.
silverfish Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 Jumboyojimbo is the most silly troll....if it aint happening third time lucky jimbo (guess you got banned before?!) it aint ever happening
Author Pepparz Posted July 5, 2010 Author Posted July 5, 2010 I'll admit that I don't have a ton of experience dating and I haven't picked up a chick in a club before, but why don't you just give her your number? I've asked chicks for their numbers in the past and for me, it seems like I always get a better response by giving them my number instead. I don't think I have ever given my number to a chick that didn't call me later on. That's just me though. You could do something like hang out and maybe try to get intimate with her if you get the chance and then say you have to split and give her your number. It might keep wanting more and then it will progress from there. Once again, I'm not totally sure on this. I'm not some dating guru or anything, but that's probably what I would do in that situation. Ye I guess giving your number would also depend on the person. This particular girl is verrry shy and I don't know if she would call me back lol. At least if I call her and she's clearly not interested I won't be thinking "what if".
Morals Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 Ye I guess giving your number would also depend on the person. This particular girl is verrry shy and I don't know if she would call me back lol. At least if I call her and she's clearly not interested I won't be thinking "what if". Well, I wouldn't say she's very shy..if she made out with you at a club...
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