mash up Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 i have not long broken up with my girlfriend of 5 months, and iam starting to think she has commitment phobia. this girl was 38 and still living at home with her mum, her dad had an affair when she was young and left. we got on realy well, family met me said i was the best of the bunch, which made me so happy, we even booked a holiday together. the sex was good, everything couldn't be better. during our time together she did some strange things looking back, which made me feel horrible, she would take a sleeping pill before bed, times were she would wake up early go down and read, then back up in another bed on her own, not mine. was she seeing someone else, or maybe a phobia. wanting time on her own, not coming down to mine, then she told me it was over, and that there was no chemistry between us, later we had to cancel the holiday together, telling me she was going to have a week away on her own. strange, i had to tell her i wanted no contact with her i've had so many mixed messages, 1. no chemistry. 2. were both to quiet. 3. she texed me saying she still had feelings for me, and she missed me but she like her own space to much and it was a worry. i don't know what to think any more, i feel abit crushed, its been 3 weeks now with no contact which is good for me. there are so many signs which i've read that thinks its cp. or was she a cheat? any feedback would help understand this mess .
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