jimbeam Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Is this possible? Like if she was recently hurt and had a bad relationship experience? I'm getting pretty strong signs that this woman likes me, but she isn't ready to even go on one date because she got burned recently...I think it really damaged her because her and her baby were abandoned by the father.
that girl Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 I think it is possible, but rare. If she and her baby were abandoned, she could really not be ready to date. The thing to do in that situation is to pull back and give her space while being somewhat friendly. Just pull back enough that she isn't taking over your thoughts. Then try again when she's had more time. But you have to really think this could be something special (otherwise it isn't worth it) and be able to pull away (or you will end up unhappy).
fishtaco Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 I guess, theoretically, but what's that good for? Like = nothing. If you want to date her, and she's not going to date you for whatever reason, whether she likes you or not is irrelevant -- she's NOT going to date you. If you find that you don't have a common goal, be it serious relationship, light open dating, or just sex, it's not going to happen, don't waste your time. If she told you no, but acts the opposite (acts like she likes you), that means she wants to use you for something. You better watch your steps. Don't be a sucker.
driedout Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Yes it's very possible not to want anything after a failed relationship.
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