Green Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 I'd like to share a true and tried method of 100% determining whether or not a girl likes you enough to go on a DATE with you. The reason I choose to share this simple yet effective method is because of the ammount of men I witness wondering and pondering if a girl likes them as if it should go into their equation. Here it is... 1) Flirt with them. Don't back down just yet even if they seem bored/scared go on to step 2) ASK THEM OUT. This will give you a pretty good indication of whether they like you. 3) KISS THEM if you really want to be 100% sure that they like you. If you don't make it to step 3 or things go right or wrong you'll have your answer either way. The key is not sitting around pulling pedals off a flower chanting "She likes me, she likes me not." Be proactive and just GO AFTER THE GIRLS THAT YOU LIKE.
MrNate Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Green, man, I have to ask. Apparently you say have the hottest girlfriend in the world, so why are you on a site such as this? What purpose does this serve you?
Author Green Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 I'm just passing the time. Having some fun. I like to write my ideas and have people read them and respond and use them. I had to figure a lot of this stuff out on my own. I mean most of it is common sense stuff like BE YOURSELF, HAVE FUN, RESPECT... but I think it helps for people to hear it said anyways.
Tony T Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 I'm not sure kissing a girl you've just met, even on the cheek, is going to get you much farther than jail. Most women don't like strange men that forward...AT ALL!!!
Author Green Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 I'm not sure kissing a girl you've just met, even on the cheek, is going to get you much farther than jail. Most women don't like strange men that forward...AT ALL!!! Well I've never been to jail, but then again I don't consider myself a strange man. More to the point girls/women can dodge an unwanted kiss as if they were NEO and it was a bullet in the MATRIX. I also put the kiss as one of the last steps, you do it durring the date. Don't say goodbye until you have atleast TRIED for a LIP KISS. A kiss on the cheek would just be LAME. The kiss is the 100% sure way to know if SHE likes you. Also it should be noted that SHE might not even know if she likes you until after that all important first kiss.
Gero Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 The kiss is the 100% sure way to know if SHE likes you. Also it should be noted that SHE might not even know if she likes you until after that all important first kiss. Yeah, that is the case some of the time.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 And if the girl can't dodge the kiss, she has the right to cry harrassment right? Honestly if a guy does a thing like that on me I'll freak out and hit him.
Diezel Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 I'd say a BJ is a pretty good indication Green.... Eyes opened or eyes closed?
D-Lish Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Eyes opened or eyes closed? Opened for sure! Eye contact is key my friend:cool:
Diezel Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Opened for sure! Eye contact is key my friend:cool: I'm glad we share a common ground on that then.
Author Green Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 And if the girl can't dodge the kiss, she has the right to cry harrassment right? Honestly if a guy does a thing like that on me I'll freak out and hit him. It's called DON'T GO OUT ON DATES if you can't handle a guy trying to kiss you.
I'm Batman Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 It's called DON'T GO OUT ON DATES if you can't handle a guy trying to kiss you. Makes sense, prolly why Asian girls go for white guys, bc asian guys are scared out of their minds! My friend has been seeing this guy for about a week (sounds confusing? 5 days, 4 dates) always complains he's not a touchy person. I think he's gay looking for more female friends I could be wrong. If I were in that guy's spot, I'd already of grabbed her hand on the second date. My dumb move with my current gf was asking if I could kiss her after the second date... so i'm a nice guy! I can't help it!
Author Green Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 Makes sense, prolly why Asian girls go for white guys, bc asian guys are scared out of their minds! My friend has been seeing this guy for about a week (sounds confusing? 5 days, 4 dates) always complains he's not a touchy person. I think he's gay looking for more female friends I could be wrong. If I were in that guy's spot, I'd already of grabbed her hand on the second date. My dumb move with my current gf was asking if I could kiss her after the second date... so i'm a nice guy! I can't help it! Dude you don't ask. Just get real close, and if they let you get real close then you know... then you just go in for the kiss with out asking.
tenaciousone Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 A man that doesn't at least attempt to kiss me on a first date is done for anyway! So yes, he best go for it or someone else will quickly take his place! How lame, a kiss on the cheek. If he were my grandfather after a lunch outing! We are talking dating here! Chemistry is the name of the game! If I am not into him. I turn my head and offer my cheek. A man will surely get the idea! Green agree with you entirely! If you aren't out there trying to live what the heck is the point. Men and Woman alike.. our egos can be tender though don't sit on the sidelines of life.. jump in and get a homer or have fun trying. BTW.. don't be homer in any other way than going for broke!
bac Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Here it is... 1) Flirt with them. Don't back down just yet even if they seem bored/scared go on to step 2) ASK THEM OUT. This will give you a pretty good indication of whether they like you. 3) KISS THEM if you really want to be 100% sure that they like you. 1) is great. 2) is OK to do, but I do not think it could work as an indication. I would just take her phone#. 3) a kiss depends on girl's dating rules. My personal rule is to kiss on the3d date.
zetkin Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 I'd like to share a true and tried method of 100% determining whether or not a girl likes you enough to go on a DATE with you. The reason I choose to share this simple yet effective method is because of the ammount of men I witness wondering and pondering if a girl likes them as if it should go into their equation. Here it is... 1) Flirt with them. Don't back down just yet even if they seem bored/scared go on to step 2) ASK THEM OUT. This will give you a pretty good indication of whether they like you. 3) KISS THEM if you really want to be 100% sure that they like you. If you don't make it to step 3 or things go right or wrong you'll have your answer either way. The key is not sitting around pulling pedals off a flower chanting "She likes me, she likes me not." Be proactive and just GO AFTER THE GIRLS THAT YOU LIKE. that's super, especially in response to the great variety of threads here, where guys obsess about being unsure about some girl/girls laugh::laugh:
Author Green Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 A man that doesn't at least attempt to kiss me on a first date is done for anyway! So yes, he best go for it or someone else will quickly take his place! How lame, a kiss on the cheek. If he were my grandfather after a lunch outing! We are talking dating here! Chemistry is the name of the game! If I am not into him. I turn my head and offer my cheek. A man will surely get the idea! Green agree with you entirely! If you aren't out there trying to live what the heck is the point. Men and Woman alike.. our egos can be tender though don't sit on the sidelines of life.. jump in and get a homer or have fun trying. BTW.. don't be homer in any other way than going for broke! thank you for confirming what I already know, yet so many refuse to understand. 1) is great. 2) is OK to do, but I do not think it could work as an indication. I would just take her phone#. 3) a kiss depends on girl's dating rules. My personal rule is to kiss on the3d date. I agree with what you wrote to an extent. I forgot to add in GET CONTACT INFO which I usualy put after #2 making KISS # 4. With the kiss my advice is to atleast TRY FOR THE KISS. If a girl is LIKE YOU and waits until date number 3 (SILLY) then she will just dodge the kiss and say "I wait till date #3."
I'm Batman Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Dude you don't ask. Just get real close, and if they let you get real close then you know... then you just go in for the kiss with out asking. Hence the dumb move, lol. Now, just to see if she's really into me, once our date is over and we're sitting in my car while she's fumbling for her keys I'll wait until she's done. If she opens the door, says good night and leaves, then she's not interested. But if she leans in then imma shoe in! Green, I'm not a master sauve like you, I was 5'7" 190lbs guy that was always in the "friends" category. Now i'm 5'7", 30lbs lighter, with all the confidence in the world.
Author Green Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 that's super, especially in response to the great variety of threads here, where guys obsess about being unsure about some girl/girls laugh::laugh: Its what motivated me to make this thread Hence the dumb move, lol. Now, just to see if she's really into me, once our date is over and we're sitting in my car while she's fumbling for her keys I'll wait until she's done. If she opens the door, says good night and leaves, then she's not interested. But if she leans in then imma shoe in! Green, I'm not a master sauve like you, I was 5'7" 190lbs guy that was always in the "friends" category. Now i'm 5'7", 30lbs lighter, with all the confidence in the world. I'm not suave either. Believe me plenty of girls have not liked me. I just think you up your chances by leaning in close to the girl, then taking that leap of faith and kissing the girl. Agreed with those steps. Exactly what I do. Maybe thats why we're both on Shutter Island
Curious-One Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 1) is great. 2) is OK to do, but I do not think it could work as an indication. I would just take her phone#. 3) a kiss depends on girl's dating rules. My personal rule is to kiss on the3d date. this guy knows what hes talking about... asking for a phone number is much better imo ... Most girls will not kiss on first date so her turning her cheek doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't like you.,..
Author Green Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 this guy knows what hes talking about... asking for a phone number is much better imo ... Most girls will not kiss on first date so her turning her cheek doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't like you.,.. Yeah but girls will give there phone number out to guys they arn't romanticly interested in. Numbers arn't any big deal.
carhill Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 IMO, time reveals who people are, and what or who they 'like'. Even with flirting and accepted kisses and eye contact BJ's, everything isn't always as it seems. I now worry less (and think less and let it 'matter' less) about whether a lady likes me and more about whether I like her and wish to share myself with her. If she accepts that and comes back for more, OK. If not, OK. On to the next like. Lots of likes in life
gamma1 Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 A man that doesn't at least attempt to kiss me on a first date is done for anyway! So yes, he best go for it or someone else will quickly take his place! I'm not kissing a woman on a first date unless she makes it clear that's what she wants. It seems like most women don't want to be touched on a first date in any way. I'm surprised they aren't open to a light touch on the arm or a hug at the end. I'd think that would be ok.
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