Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 6, 2010 Author Posted July 6, 2010 I loved Toy Story 3! Now I want to see it more! He said after wards that we should have seen Toy Story. Well that doesn't help does it?!
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 6, 2010 Author Posted July 6, 2010 Last night I asked him if he wanted to be there Sat. (He asked where? I told him on the date) and he said yes. I told him that I didn't know if he did want to be there because it didn't feel like it and told him that I had felt invisible. He didn't really say anything though I was tired and went to bed anyway. So didn't give him time to respond but really don't think you can realy say anything anyway. I said bye and he said good night and he would talk to me tomorrow. I dunno if he can tell that I am not too impressed with him right now, but I am going to make him come to me.
kiss_andmakeup Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 This guy kind of sounds like an all-around loser...canceling a date to go home and watch UFC? Especially a third date? I could see if you guys had been dating a while and he felt more comfortable with you, but at this stage he should still be trying to make a good impression. And blech...I was just on Rotten Tomatoes this morning and I think Airbender got like an 8/100. Should've seen Toy Story!
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 6, 2010 Author Posted July 6, 2010 This guy kind of sounds like an all-around loser...canceling a date to go home and watch UFC? Especially a third date? I could see if you guys had been dating a while and he felt more comfortable with you, but at this stage he should still be trying to make a good impression. And blech...I was just on Rotten Tomatoes this morning and I think Airbender got like an 8/100. Should've seen Toy Story! That's the thing, I think he has gotten comfortable in such a sort time. H said he can always go out with me another time - in our disagreement about his possible changing our plans for UFC - though I made it clear that that may not be so (hello don't take me for granted and at the point had only gone out twice!). He didn't actually cancel, he brought up that he may not make it but then decide to in the end. (though just bringing up changing our plans for something on TV still made me mad - people come before tv) The movie was the initial plan, he asked me if I wanted to go to a movie. Then there just happened a free outdoor concert right outside the theater the same day, which I said would be cool to go to and he had though so too. So that was added onto the plan. So we walked around the city, had a small bite and went to the move. Just not the concert, though when he left I went to myself and actually ran into my sister.
Chicago_Guy Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 Guy asks girl on 3rd date to a movie. Before the date they talk about what they both want too see and both want to see Toy Story 3D. Are at the theater and guy goes to pay for the tickets but buys 2 for Air Bender 3D without even asking her if that's one she wants to see. Girl asks guy why he changed the movie and didn't ask her opinion. He said he changed his mind and wanted to see the other one instead. Then he says oh did you not want to see? Oh sorry should have asked. Self centered? Just not used to thinking for 2 vs 1? Discuss! If you two agreed ahead of time and then he bought tickets to the other movie at the last second after you arrived at the theater then it sounds like he's playing games or has control issues.
potrzebie Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 Self centered? Just not used to thinking for 2 vs 1? ! maybe he was just "testing" you to see how cool you'd be about just rolling with it...like were the first two dates all about you? maybe he wanted a date that WAS all about him and he was hoping you'd be cool with that...?
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 6, 2010 Author Posted July 6, 2010 If you two agreed ahead of time and then he bought tickets to the other movie at the last second after you arrived at the theater then it sounds like he's playing games or has control issues. Yup before hand he asked me which movie I wanted to see, then i looked up ghe website to see what was playing and sent him the link too. He suggested Toy Story and I was thinking the same thing so we decided on that one. Then at the theater he walked up and bought tickets to a totally different movie just cause he wanted to see it. I think he just pretty much thinks about what he wants. I got the same answer Sat when I asked about the movie change and about UFC. Because he wants to see it.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 6, 2010 Author Posted July 6, 2010 maybe he was just "testing" you to see how cool you'd be about just rolling with it...like were the first two dates all about you? maybe he wanted a date that WAS all about him and he was hoping you'd be cool with that...? I didn't freak out or anything but did question why he changed it when we both wanted to see the other movie. (then I saw the light bulb go on then he resized that he should have asked me if I wanted to see it too) no the first 2 were mutual, somewhere we both wanted to go and I made sure was equal traveling for both.
SarahRose Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 So why is this even an issue now and why are you still thinking about going out with him again? This guy is a loser. Everyone has pointed that out but you are still thinking about him? If you want a socially mutant self-absorbed guy keep dating this one, if you don't move on!
gamma1 Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 I think he just pretty much thinks about what he wants. I got the same answer Sat when I asked about the movie change and about UFC. Because he wants to see it. Why are you still dating him? There's millions of good men out there who actually care about the woman they are dating. He doesn't seem to be one of them.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 6, 2010 Author Posted July 6, 2010 So why is this even an issue now and why are you still thinking about going out with him again? This guy is a loser. Everyone has pointed that out but you are still thinking about him? If you want a socially mutant self-absorbed guy keep dating this one, if you don't move on! I didn't say I was going out with him again, or thinking about it. I'm just responding to the responses that people are sending. I am just observing to see what he does next. If it's the same bs then I will be telling him we aren't dating
potrzebie Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 I didn't freak out or anything but did question why he changed it when we both wanted to see the other movie. (then I saw the light bulb go on then he resized that he should have asked me if I wanted to see it too) no the first 2 were mutual, somewhere we both wanted to go and I made sure was equal traveling for both. hmmm, in that case, i do agree with the other posters--see what happens next, but you're only a few dates into it, no harm no foul at this point, y'know? if it's not feeling good...
Chicago_Guy Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 Yup before hand he asked me which movie I wanted to see, then i looked up ghe website to see what was playing and sent him the link too. He suggested Toy Story and I was thinking the same thing so we decided on that one. Then at the theater he walked up and bought tickets to a totally different movie just cause he wanted to see it. I think he just pretty much thinks about what he wants. I got the same answer Sat when I asked about the movie change and about UFC. Because he wants to see it. Sometimes women will try to pull stuff like this early on in the dating process. Apparently it is some type of "sh** test" that women will pull to see what the man will let them get away with. It is very annoying when someone behaves like this, and you cannot let the other person get away with this behavior. You need to let that guy know that what he was did was unacceptable because the two of you had already agreed to see the other movie.
Diezel Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 I didn't say I was going out with him again, or thinking about it. I'm just responding to the responses that people are sending. I am just observing to see what he does next. If it's the same bs then I will be telling him we aren't dating Contradiction, much?
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 7, 2010 Author Posted July 7, 2010 (edited) Contradiction, much? Just cause I am observing to see what he does/acts doesn't mean I am going out with him again. I am just curious. At this point I have made up my mind but doesn't hurt to wait and see before making it final. Edited July 7, 2010 by sweetbutcheeky To add more details
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 7, 2010 Author Posted July 7, 2010 Sometimes women will try to pull stuff like this early on in the dating process. Apparently it is some type of "sh** test" that women will pull to see what the man will let them get away with. It is very annoying when someone behaves like this, and you cannot let the other person get away with this behavior. You need to let that guy know that what he was did was unacceptable because the two of you had already agreed to see the other movie. Not me, I think it's a waste of everyone's time. Ya I did and I could tell that the light build went on when I said it, he apologized and said he should have asked me before changing the tickets. hmmm, in that case, i do agree with the other posters--see what happens next, but you're only a few dates into it, no harm no foul at this point, y'know? if it's not feeling good... Ya so do I which I have pretty much made up my mind to end us dating. That's the thing it's only 3 dates so hard to say how long you give someone before you know that's just the way they are or it was just the date. Obviously there were good things too.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 8, 2010 Author Posted July 8, 2010 I observed enough, since Saturday he hasn't said much to me other than a few words and a Hi on msn the other night. He said hi, then stopped talking and when I asked him if he wanted to chat cause he started the chat he said was watching tv. So I told him when he wasn't busy contact me to chat. Still nothing so I emailed him and that is that. Noticed today he blocked me on msn. What's the point of that, I ended it? lol Gave him enough chances and that's enough. Done
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