sweetbutcheeky Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Guy asks girl on 3rd date to a movie. Before the date they talk about what they both want too see and both want to see Toy Story 3D. Are at the theater and guy goes to pay for the tickets but buys 2 for Air Bender 3D without even asking her if that's one she wants to see. Girl asks guy why he changed the movie and didn't ask her opinion. He said he changed his mind and wanted to see the other one instead. Then he says oh did you not want to see? Oh sorry should have asked. Self centered? Just not used to thinking for 2 vs 1? Discuss!
D-Lish Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Guy asks girl on 3rd date to a movie. Before the date they talk about what they both want too see and both want to see Toy Story 3D. Are at the theater and guy goes to pay for the tickets but buys 2 for Air Bender 3D without even asking her if that's one she wants to see. Girl asks guy why he changed the movie and didn't ask her opinion. He said he changed his mind and wanted to see the other one instead. Then he says oh did you not want to see? Oh sorry should have asked. Self centered? Just not used to thinking for 2 vs 1? Discuss! Maybe TS3 was sold out, or he simply didn't think attending an animated cartoon geared toward tweens was more important than simply hanging out with someone he wanted to hang out with. Airbender looks cool anyway, much cooler than Toy Story. It's also longer, maybe he wanted to spend more time with you.
stellaluna Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 As an adult, I'd never view Toy Story as a date movie. It's for kids man. I saw AirBender last night MNight is a god- did you see AirBender???
Circular Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 He's showing you that he has bad taste in movies. Any smart dude would have checked reviews and known that Last Air Bender sucked over TS3. You should dump him and find a smarter and less sell centered dude.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 Maybe TS3 was sold out, or he simply didn't think attending an animated cartoon geared toward tweens was more important than simply hanging out with someone he wanted to hang out with. Airbender looks cool anyway, much cooler than Toy Story. It's also longer, maybe he wanted to spend more time with you. Wasn't sold out cause I was there when he bought them. Was first his idea for TS3 and I agreed. I didn't mind going to see it cause thought it looked interesting but he didn't know that. Decided for us and didn't look at the running times. For the date I kinda felt invisable. He didn't say much, try to kiss me like in the first 2, while waiting he watched YouTube and played games on my phone. Then in the movie I could have been sitting besides anyone.
Gero Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 I don't pay much attention to movies. Is Airbender really an adult movie? It is based on a Nickelodeon cartoon after all.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 (edited) He's showing you that he has bad taste in movies. Any smart dude would have checked reviews and known that Last Air Bender sucked over TS3. You should dump him and find a smarter and less sell centered dude. We both weren't impressed with Air Bender and afterwards he said himself we should have seen Toy Story. We were supposed to see a free concert after which was just outside the theater. He left before the concert cause he wanted to get home to watch UFC. (almost postponed the date cause he didn't want to miss it) When I got annoyed that he wanted to change our date for UFC he actually asked me if I was self centered! Cause I wanted him to keep the plans we made, the date he asked me on. Edited July 4, 2010 by sweetbutcheeky
gamma1 Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 As an adult, I'd never view Toy Story as a date movie. It's for kids man. I saw AirBender last night MNight is a god- did you see AirBender??? It was a good date movie because she wanted to see it.
D-Lish Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 We both weren't impressed with Air Bender and afterwards he said himself we should have seen Toy Story. We were supposed to see a free concert after which was just outside the theater. He left before the concert cause he wanted to get home to watch UFC. (almost postponed the date cause he didn't want to miss it) When I got annoyed that he wanted to change our date for UFC he actually asked me if I was self centered! Cause I wanted him to keep the plans we made, the date he asked me on. If he was anxious to get away to go home and watch UFC, he's not interested, and he's not a good date. It was a good date movie because she wanted to see it. Pretty much.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 We both weren't impressed with Air Bender and afterwards he said himself we should have seen Toy Story. We were supposed to see a free concert after which was just outside the theater. He left before the concert cause he wanted to get home to watch UFC. (almost postponed the date cause he didn't want to miss it) When I got annoyed that he wanted to change our date for UFC he actually asked me if I was self centered! Cause I wanted him to keep the plans we made, the date he asked me on. Never date a fighter, or a guy interested in UFC. They can be great trainers but never a great date.
Diezel Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Never date a fighter, or a guy interested in UFC. They can be great trainers but never a great date. I don't know, but my girlfriend tends to think I'm a great date everytime we go out. BTW, Brock Lesnar won in the second round. Why don't you just include guys interested in ALL sports, cars, and video games while you're at it? And yeah, I showed this post to the G/f, she laughed.
D-Lish Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 I don't know, but my girlfriend tends to think I'm a great date everytime we go out. BTW, Brock Lesnar won in the second round. Why don't you just include guys interested in ALL sports, cars, and video games while you're at it? And yeah, I showed this post to the G/f, she laughed. Did your gf like Toy Story3 D?
Diezel Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Did your gf like Toy Story3 D? You're killing me smalls.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 I don't know, but my girlfriend tends to think I'm a great date everytime we go out. BTW, Brock Lesnar won in the second round. Why don't you just include guys interested in ALL sports, cars, and video games while you're at it? And yeah, I showed this post to the G/f, she laughed. Haha, thanks for listing them for me.
alyssatranswarrior Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 I think it's over the top to suggest his liking UFC is a reason to think hes a bad guy/date. Definitely his insistence of making his TV date instead of lingering on YOUR date is a red flag in my view. He's possibly not that into you I'm afraid. I can't think of a good guy who wouldn't want to continue spending time with someone they are super into, wether it be a concert or just hanging out.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 (edited) It was a good date movie because she wanted to see it. Yup, he brought up the idea but I was thinking the same thing. If he was anxious to get away to go home and watch UFC, he's not interested, and he's not a good date. At one point I asked him what that was all about, saying he was deciding if he may have to not make it cause of UFC. (in person cause we were rallying over msn cause he needed more mins on his cell) he said cause he wanted to see it, that he missed it last time cause of a room mate and he were going to see it but left and he missed it. He wasn't anxious, just didn't stay for the concert. But he did decide to follow threw with the movie night, which was what his idea was, I assume cause he wanted so see me. Though still I felt invisible. Just doesn't seem right that he first was talking about postponing cause of something on tv, UFC. Then changes the movie cause he wanted to see it and didn't even think about if it's something I wanted to see after we decided on one already. Edited July 4, 2010 by sweetbutcheeky
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 LOL. I can't imagine canceling a date to go home and watch TV, whether it's UFC or anything else. I mean is this guy 12 years old or something? He says he is 32!
SarahRose Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 He says he is 32! There is a reason he is still single. Try self-absorbed, selfish, social skills of a snail. The real question is why are you still going out with him?
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 5, 2010 Author Posted July 5, 2010 This was just yesterday and most likely won't be unless he makes a big gesture.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 He says he is 32! See that's an important clue you don't leave out. Smells like a serial bachelor to me.
harmfulsweetz Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 That sounds like a terrible date...I mean, no one changes the movie they are going to see without first asking the other person, it's just common courtesy. Strike one. Strike two-he played on youtube while waiting for the film to start? Seriously? Not even the biggest of gestures could redeem him from hereonin. Strike three-he cancels the second part of your date to watch TV-does he not have a record button? Sorry these things can be recorded, or watched on youtube at a later date, he didn't need to rush off. I wouldn't consider dating him again if I were you.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted July 5, 2010 Author Posted July 5, 2010 (edited) Another bit I didn't add was that he has a disability. Not that it matters I don't think or treat him any differently. (has leg braces and cane cause of polio as a kid) But I know he has been papered by his family and threw his life because of it. I wonder if he is used to getting his own way so is used to thinking about himself. He did realize once I mentioned it and apologized. Plus did ask me initially when we decided on toy story. Also the crowd was making it hard for him to get around. Though I know he left to make it back in time to see UFC. My point to him was also you can watch it later online. Not making excuses, still annoys me. Well the whole date did. But some things that I thought about. Edited July 5, 2010 by sweetbutcheeky
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